After my childhood friend died a week ago..i've been trying to get into contact with old friends...even exboyfriends... Am i crazy to go through with talking to them all?

I don't think you are crazy. Maybe that is just a way to tie the past together and get closure.

not at all, i think its a good thing that you are trying to reconect with everyone

you're not crazy. i think it might be a little bit of a wake up call for you tho. maybe you realized how much fun you had with your old friends/boyfriends and you realize how important they were to you......i've been thru the same stuff....

friends no..ex boyfriends maybe..no harm i guess

I hope it all works out for ya sweetheart

people all grieve in different ways .. you have to allow yourself to do so and you can't just skip it or it will rear it's ugly head later .. Getting in contact with old friends seems pretty normal .. I went the other route in my grief I shut everyone out .. the point is there is no right way to be sad or wrong way to be sad ..

i lost touch with soo manny people over the past few years...and the friend that died was one of them.. and i always said i would get to gettin in touch with them... and his death kinda hit me...cuz i put off getting back in touch with him cuz i thought i had time... and i dont. we really dont have time like we think we do..

Perfectly normal my dear!!! ( But dont listen to me cause Im not normal by ANY meens!!!)

I THINK YOU JUST DONT WANNA LOSE THEM TOO.

THATS NOT CRAZY...THATS BIENG CONCERNED.

I think it will be good for you, to be able to move on with your life. So sorry to hear about your friend......

This is why you should try to avoid burning bridges at all costs. The girl I dated and lived with for 6 years before meeting my current, soon to be ex-wife of ten years, is out there somewhere and I have no Idea where. At one time we thought we would care about each other forever. If she died I probably wouldn't find out for some length of time. I know my crrent wife will always be around because we share custody of our children 50/50. Always say I love you before leaving every morning and never go to bed mad!

thanks..i'm dealing..its just a shock cuz he was only 22..and almost home free from the icu and hosptitals

this helps you grieve, and connect with other souls for your comfort. it's the best thing.

I know how you feel... I lost my best friend when she was 27. After surviving a heart operation that had a 50/50 chance, she had passed away 3 months later after a routine procdure that she had had done in the past. It does make you realize that life is precious and short. Take the time to grieve though. Hugs.

No, you are not crazy, now you need company and friends are more suitable than exboyfriends. it´s a normal process when we lose someone.