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Mike91ZX Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 317	Tue 03/04/08 12:07 AM Edited by Mike91ZX on Tue 03/04/08 12:08 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... You nipped her? I remember seeing you just saying "Oh no she dint" Kind of posts! Or "Did you hear what she said -scoffing laughter insues-" get the F outta here.. you know better... Mike I'm sorry to hear that... If she is doing that to you maybe you should step back for a while and make her realize what she's losing... How long were you dating? Did you meet her online? Next Monday would be our 2month together, but she's my first love and we've moved fast the past 2 months but we both agreed moving fast was fine, and it was, but apparently she is just too rough. She said she wanted me to tell her things about me more, so I told her how I was feeling tonight and she just said "that's not my problem, that's your fault" -- man first loves hurt... Yeah we met online.

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:08 AM
Any love, loss, or intrigue? Let Ol Maudred know how life's going! Not to bring the topic down, but since you asked, yeah I got something, Love and possible Loss. I found in a not-so-subtle way that my girl might be cheating on me and she's making excuses and turning everything against me. She's managed to make me feel bad for wanting to be with her more, not sure how that happened. I've been so f'd up all night, feels like the time I had food poisoning. ps: she's my first love Aww bro, thats all bad man, do you know what you're going to do? Its step one of any issues she has "Denial and anger towards the person who brings it up" Even if you were to gain irrefutable proof, she would still in her head be screaming "It wasnt me" How do you think she's cheating on you? She's been talking with her ex-bf saying "I want to be around you more" and talking about starting things up with him again. She's always been a rough person, but I've always treated her like a queen and been there for her. No matter what good I do, all she see's is the bad... Then thats not the person you want to be with, you have to think: "Am I really in love with someone that only see's the bad in me, or is it just infatuation?" If either one, you then need to think what you're going to do about it. Personally, if I were with someone who saw only bad in me, and I loved her, I would start seeing the bad in me as well, and become horribly depressed. Do you want that?

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 03/04/08 12:08 AM
My nite is going good but my week has been hell!! (((((Princess))))) you are so beautiful sweetheart!!! Yeah, I wanta marry IndnPrncs!!! awwww Engraven I luv you too baby...

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:09 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... You nipped her? I remember seeing you just saying "Oh no she dint" Kind of posts! Or "Did you hear what she said -scoffing laughter insues-" get the F outta here.. you know better... Mike I'm sorry to hear that... If she is doing that to you maybe you should step back for a while and make her realize what she's losing... How long were you dating? Did you meet her online? Next Monday would be our 2month together, but she's my first love and we've moved fast the past 2 months but we both agreed moving fast was fine, and it was, but apparently she is just too rough. She said she wanted me to tell her things about me more, so I told her how I was feeling tonight and she just said "that's not my problem, that's your fault" -- man first loves hurt... Yeah it does dude. You'll remember it for the rest of your life too, the good news: The pain will go away, and you will grow.

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:09 AM
My nite is going good but my week has been hell!! (((((Princess))))) you are so beautiful sweetheart!!! Yeah, I wanta marry IndnPrncs!!! awwww Engraven I luv you too baby... Yo yo yo hommie yo, she's my third wife, get your own!

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Tue 03/04/08 12:09 AM
hi all ....erm mike this mite be hard but back off from her and leave her to it, move on hun shes going to mess with your head and when you do meet a nice girl its going hard to to trust her...some people arnt worth the effort and sorry to say this she sounds like one of them

jenleah32 Joined Sat 09/22/07 Posts: 4577	Tue 03/04/08 12:10 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... Just having man probs of my own...torn between two and I have been out with both of them and I am really feeling the second guy but he is not ready for a relationship sooo I am sad and!! that stinks well what about the other one? sometimes what we can't have is what makes us want it more and usually it's not worth it in the end... If he's being honest with you then I would listen to that and say "next" or try the first guy... Hey sweets at least you have guys, that's more than I have.. LOL I really don't feel a connection with the first guy plus he is a lot older than me and a little tooo touchy feely for me in that kind of kreepy way!! Awwww I sawwwy sweets I wish I could help all of my lovely friends out like you, bad, madam, cuppy and everyone else whome I care so much about!!

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:10 AM
hi all ....erm mike this mite be hard but back off from her and leave her to it, move on hun shes going to mess with your head and when you do meet a nice girl its going hard to to trust her...some people arnt worth the effort and sorry to say this she sounds like one of them Very true, even if you didnt want to, you would be leeching off her bad energy and you would lose who you are. :p

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 03/04/08 12:10 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... You nipped her? I remember seeing you just saying "Oh no she dint" Kind of posts! Or "Did you hear what she said -scoffing laughter insues-" get the F outta here.. you know better... Mike I'm sorry to hear that... If she is doing that to you maybe you should step back for a while and make her realize what she's losing... How long were you dating? Did you meet her online? Next Monday would be our 2month together, but she's my first love and we've moved fast the past 2 months but we both agreed moving fast was fine, and it was, but apparently she is just too rough. She said she wanted me to tell her things about me more, so I told her how I was feeling tonight and she just said "that's not my problem, that's your fault" -- man first loves hurt... Yeah we met online. Mike, Maudred is young but wise.. I like this smart a$$.... He is so right though.. After 2 mos sweetie it's not "true or real" love.. It's infatuation.. You will be over it in a month... I don't mean to burst your bubble but I have a lot of years on you and I've finally learned the difference... Just move on, sounds like drama and head games and you don't need that.. No offense but men are so easy soured that if you can avoid it you should...

Mike91ZX Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 317	Tue 03/04/08 12:12 AM
I've gotten so many mixed signals, I honestly think she's Bi-Polar because when I tell her "you said this" she gets mad and says "no I didn't", either she's lying or really forgetting what she says. She said she wants to be alone for the next few days, and won't talk to me. I'm starting to look at our relationship and everything I've done I've given my best. I just started a company with her in mind first, to be able to see her more, but it seems I'm just not important to her even though I can't stop thinking about her 24/7.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 03/04/08 12:12 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... Just having man probs of my own...torn between two and I have been out with both of them and I am really feeling the second guy but he is not ready for a relationship sooo I am sad and!! that stinks well what about the other one? sometimes what we can't have is what makes us want it more and usually it's not worth it in the end... If he's being honest with you then I would listen to that and say "next" or try the first guy... Hey sweets at least you have guys, that's more than I have.. LOL I really don't feel a connection with the first guy plus he is a lot older than me and a little tooo touchy feely for me in that kind of kreepy way!! Awwww I sawwwy sweets I wish I could help all of my lovely friends out like you, bad, madam, cuppy and everyone else whome I care so much about!! thanks baby girl.. when it's meant to be it will be.. I was just kidding.. I miss that feeling but I know it's not right yet.. We all have offers we just turn them down.. sort of like you and #1 but maybe not that ewwwwwwwwwness to it.. lol

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:12 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... You nipped her? I remember seeing you just saying "Oh no she dint" Kind of posts! Or "Did you hear what she said -scoffing laughter insues-" get the F outta here.. you know better... Mike I'm sorry to hear that... If she is doing that to you maybe you should step back for a while and make her realize what she's losing... How long were you dating? Did you meet her online? Next Monday would be our 2month together, but she's my first love and we've moved fast the past 2 months but we both agreed moving fast was fine, and it was, but apparently she is just too rough. She said she wanted me to tell her things about me more, so I told her how I was feeling tonight and she just said "that's not my problem, that's your fault" -- man first loves hurt... Yeah we met online. Mike, Maudred is young but wise.. I like this smart a$$.... He is so right though.. After 2 mos sweetie it's not "true or real" love.. It's infatuation.. You will be over it in a month... I don't mean to burst your bubble but I have a lot of years on you and I've finally learned the difference... Just move on, sounds like drama and head games and you don't need that.. No offense but men are so easy soured that if you can avoid it you should... Yeah who woulda guessed.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 03/04/08 12:13 AM
My nite is going good but my week has been hell!! (((((Princess))))) you are so beautiful sweetheart!!! Yeah, I wanta marry IndnPrncs!!! awwww Engraven I luv you too baby... Yo yo yo hommie yo, she's my third wife, get your own! Awwww Maud I just love your filandering/mormon ways...

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 03/04/08 12:13 AM
hi all ....erm mike this mite be hard but back off from her and leave her to it, move on hun shes going to mess with your head and when you do meet a nice girl its going hard to to trust her...some people arnt worth the effort and sorry to say this she sounds like one of them ((((Deb)))) how are things darlin'?

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:14 AM
I've gotten so many mixed signals, I honestly think she's Bi-Polar because when I tell her "you said this" she gets mad and says "no I didn't", either she's lying or really forgetting what she says. She said she wants to be alone for the next few days, and won't talk to me. I'm starting to look at our relationship and everything I've done I've given my best. I just started a company with her in mind first, to be able to see her more, but it seems I'm just not important to her even though I can't stop thinking about her 24/7. Heres the best advice I can give for thinking about her: Dont see, call, talk, text, IM with her for 1 week long, after that, I guarentee it will be easier to break up with her (If thats what you're looking for.) It will give you time to think, and be able to get over the emotion, Logic and emotion do not work together, always remember that. Sometimes you need to ignore Emotion, sometimes Viseversa, the week will give you the time to decide which.

Mike91ZX Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 317	Tue 03/04/08 12:15 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... You nipped her? I remember seeing you just saying "Oh no she dint" Kind of posts! Or "Did you hear what she said -scoffing laughter insues-" get the F outta here.. you know better... Mike I'm sorry to hear that... If she is doing that to you maybe you should step back for a while and make her realize what she's losing... How long were you dating? Did you meet her online? Next Monday would be our 2month together, but she's my first love and we've moved fast the past 2 months but we both agreed moving fast was fine, and it was, but apparently she is just too rough. She said she wanted me to tell her things about me more, so I told her how I was feeling tonight and she just said "that's not my problem, that's your fault" -- man first loves hurt... Yeah we met online. Mike, Maudred is young but wise.. I like this smart a$$.... He is so right though.. After 2 mos sweetie it's not "true or real" love.. It's infatuation.. You will be over it in a month... I don't mean to burst your bubble but I have a lot of years on you and I've finally learned the difference... Just move on, sounds like drama and head games and you don't need that.. No offense but men are so easy soured that if you can avoid it you should... I'm starting to think it probably is just infatuation, but some things I've seen in her I've always thought were the best qualities ever. It just hurts to think it isn't love, I may only be 19 but it feels I've been alone 50 years before she came along...

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:15 AM
My nite is going good but my week has been hell!! (((((Princess))))) you are so beautiful sweetheart!!! Yeah, I wanta marry IndnPrncs!!! awwww Engraven I luv you too baby... Yo yo yo hommie yo, she's my third wife, get your own! Awwww Maud I just love your filandering/mormon ways... I'm not morman, i'm just selfish with the pretty ladies. Der. :0

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Tue 03/04/08 12:16 AM
hi all ....erm mike this mite be hard but back off from her and leave her to it, move on hun shes going to mess with your head and when you do meet a nice girl its going hard to to trust her...some people arnt worth the effort and sorry to say this she sounds like one of them ((((Deb)))) how are things darlin'? great thanx just got up, son is havin a tant and first kid arrives in 5 lol...give me strength lol...hows you hun

Maudred Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 842	Tue 03/04/08 12:16 AM
Trust me mike, we all know how you feel, and it will be better if you break things off, we all here agree, if your not going to listen to me, the 20 year old pup, then listen to the wiser woman here. Who know better then I ever could. Just listen to your head, not your heart.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 03/04/08 12:17 AM
(((((jen)))))) thank you sweetie.. needed you when some ignorant 18 yr old called my pics fake.. but you know me I nipped that babies bud.. . What happened this week other than the other thing... You nipped her? I remember seeing you just saying "Oh no she dint" Kind of posts! Or "Did you hear what she said -scoffing laughter insues-" get the F outta here.. you know better... Mike I'm sorry to hear that... If she is doing that to you maybe you should step back for a while and make her realize what she's losing... How long were you dating? Did you meet her online? Next Monday would be our 2month together, but she's my first love and we've moved fast the past 2 months but we both agreed moving fast was fine, and it was, but apparently she is just too rough. She said she wanted me to tell her things about me more, so I told her how I was feeling tonight and she just said "that's not my problem, that's your fault" -- man first loves hurt... Yeah we met online. Mike, Maudred is young but wise.. I like this smart a$$.... He is so right though.. After 2 mos sweetie it's not "true or real" love.. It's infatuation.. You will be over it in a month... I don't mean to burst your bubble but I have a lot of years on you and I've finally learned the difference... Just move on, sounds like drama and head games and you don't need that.. No offense but men are so easy soured that if you can avoid it you should... I'm starting to think it probably is just infatuation, but some things I've seen in her I've always thought were the best qualities ever. It just hurts to think it isn't love, I may only be 19 but it feels I've been alone 50 years before she came along... Honey DO NOT push life quicker than it should go... Believe me one day you wake up and you're my age and you look back thinking "My God I should have done things differently".. i.e being in a rush to be married/loved, have kids, etc.. there is sooooooooooo much life to live before all that. once you get the other having fun, traveling, etc. ends.. I tell my sons.. LIVE then get married and have kids b/c then at least you've done things, once you have kids, you owe your world to them it's about them not you anymore....