If u break up with someone mutually and then talk 2 eachother every day, without seeing eachother, for the next year and a half, is that healthy? Or is it time to end all ties? Also, can a person really be in love with 2 people equally? Let me hear your opinions.

Sounds like you're up to a choice here my friend.... I think it's possible to really LIKE two people at the same time but, to be in LOVE with two people at the same time shouldn't happen. That's just my opinion....

It depends. I talk to my ex, almost daily, but it is not by choice!! If you are talking, due to longing then it's quite different. I think you can be attracted to, but not in love with 2. Someone is bound to get hurt!

My ex calls me and wants to talk a lot but I have to limit it .. he will block my progress to move forward

my eyeballs hurt....

I hear form my ex/girlfreind about once a week,but her kids call about every other day if not everyday,Their real dad wont and never has had anything to do with them,2 kids with ADHD,and I was closest thing they have ever had to a real Dad. So if kids are involved with you and ex,then stay in tutch but get on with life.Just my opinion

What if im schizophrenic?

Well, I hope for your sake you aren't.

I am though. Thats the sad part. I like different people in different minds. And they are so opposite that i need both to balance my brain out. Hahahaha! Im insane!

You seem rational to me, just confused about 2 women.

I not in love with anyone. I prefer the company of myself.

you messin with us??

no writen rule says you cant be friends with your ex, but talking to her every day??? sounds a little clingy to me. move on dude, give your current gf all of your attention, you will be surprised how quickly you will realize you dont love your ex as much as you think you do

I think it is possible to care for 2 people at the same time..but not to love 2 people at the same time. There are so many different types of love and being IN love is suppose to be for TWO people not THREE!! I think you are playing a game that is going down a dead end street and you are going to end up the loser here! You really need to search deep inside and figure out what you want OR more important, WHO you want!!
Sometimes I think we want things to work out so badly that we start to over look the bad things that was in the relationship. They are an EX for a reason, maybe you should just let it stay that way! Maybe sit down and really re-examine the relationship and be as honest as you can. It really wasn't that great was it? If it was, you would still be in it!! Move on my friend, commit yourself to your new mate and forget about the old one. If you can not do this, maybe its time to set the new one free! I don't think you are being fair to your new relationship by living in the past! You are not giving this relationship 100% and if you can not do that, then why be in it?