Topic: I'm back
dhutch9's photo
Sun 03/02/08 09:33 AM
Well-here it is in a nutshell. Met a great guy,hung out,had fun for a few months and he turned out to be not the one for me. I have kids,he doesn't like kids. End game. Oh well-everything happens for a reason,right? So I'm back.

hellkitten54's photo
Sun 03/02/08 09:36 AM
Welcome back.flowerforyou

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Sun 03/02/08 09:37 AM
welcome back dhutch!flowerforyou

dhutch9's photo
Sun 03/02/08 09:39 AM
Thanks.

Pete026's photo
Sun 03/02/08 09:39 AM

I have kids,he doesn't like kids. End game.


Did you not discuss this before meeting?

Welcome back, all the same flowerforyou

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Sun 03/02/08 09:44 AM
ya think he would have noticed them inside of three months like...who are these little people i always see running around the living room and..look they're eating your food ...laugh ..j/k

dhutch9's photo
Sun 03/02/08 09:44 AM
We did discuss it. However,he wasn't completely honest in the beginning. So he pretended like it was OK then when it came time to meet them,he changed his perspective. Kids aren't for everyone and that's ok. But he should've been honest from the get go.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:49 AM
or how about ..these little people they ..kinda ...look like you...hhmmm ..what is going on here and what is their strange fascination with cartoons..could these be whats commonly referred to as...KIDS....laugh ..j/k

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Sun 03/02/08 09:50 AM

We did discuss it. However,he wasn't completely honest in the beginning. So he pretended like it was OK then when it came time to meet them,he changed his perspective. Kids aren't for everyone and that's ok. But he should've been honest from the get go.


Absolutely true. I can't understand why he wouldn't want to have that out in the open from Day One. That's one of the 3 issues I need to know about immediately!

Welcome back!

[And yes, I do remember you!]

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Pete026's photo
Sun 03/02/08 09:52 AM

We did discuss it. However,he wasn't completely honest in the beginning. So he pretended like it was OK then when it came time to meet them,he changed his perspective. Kids aren't for everyone and that's ok. But he should've been honest from the get go.


Damn right!!!!
explode Whatever happened to HONESTY??! grumble
People who lie to others (and to themselves) make me sick.

Is that guy on JSH? You should post warnings to other women with kids devil laugh

dhutch9's photo
Sun 03/02/08 09:55 AM
He's not from JSH. Hi Lex.

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:17 PM
welcome back, I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. I don't understand what the purpose of lying to you about it. Why can't people just be HONEST with how they feel about things.

dhutch9's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:23 PM
I wonder many times why people think they have to sugar-coat things for me. I'm an adult. Why is it so hard for some to just tell the truth?