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Topic: Do I Even Come Close?
FroznChild's photo
Sun 03/02/08 04:38 AM
Check out the profile, tell me what you think...
Snub your nose if you like..
I can take it...
be brutal...
but bring a mountain dew.

eskimo_nell's photo
Sun 03/02/08 04:41 AM
your after a sugar mummy ?? laugh laugh

s1owhand's photo
Sun 03/02/08 04:45 AM

your after a sugar mummy ?? laugh laugh


it is a nice honest profile but see what happens!!laugh
here have a few swigs of Dew...drinker

i think it'll go over better with a bit more explanation
of that one delicate point...

bigsmile flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 03/02/08 04:53 AM
If love has no age then what does love have to have a dollar amount??

FroznChild's photo
Sun 03/02/08 04:59 AM
lol... I'd take a sugar mummy if she'd be willing to take me!

Thanks for the dew...

and the only reason that money really matters,
is because I'm a "self proposed" (meaning, I could suck) writer...
and would rather try to spend my time writing (I think childrens books/poems) then working at McD's if I can.
but... if I have to do both, I'm willing!

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:00 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Sun 03/02/08 05:01 AM
I thought your profile was very well written. The financial thing though.... you mention this over and over... yet you list your profession as self-reliant.

Honestly, it just comes off as a sugar coated version of "I'm too lazy to work and I want a woman to take care of me".

eskimo_nell's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:02 AM
laugh laugh

would you ever consider dating any women who are normal working girls i.e none rich women??

FroznChild's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:06 AM

I thought your profile was very well written. The financial thing though.... you mention this over and over... yet you list your profession as self-reliant.

Honestly, it just comes off as a sugar coated version of "I'm too lazy to work and I want a woman to take care of me".

dam*.... sock it to me! Right on the chin!explode
lol... I can take it though...
but I think I doth protest to much,
for she is right.
(self reliant) used to be a radio broadcaster.
lol... case of used to schmused to.

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:12 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Sun 03/02/08 05:13 AM
At least you're honest then. But really... you might want to look at a person having money as just a thing they have rather than something you want. Just a thought. In the grand scheme of things, money is a thing. Not a condition to a relationship.

FroznChild's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:23 AM
Independent... women... both financially, and emotionally... kinda go hand and hand... those women who haven't been supressed, for whatever reason... man, or themselves, self doubt... etc...
Those women who are independently weathly...
which may be a much better term then Financially wealthy...
very fine lines here.

Suffice to say, that, yes, I would definately go out with a just regular, working class girl.
and no, money should never be looked at as anything more then what it is, a mere object, in comparison to the ones you love.
I suppose what I do in my profile, is...
Test the waters of a fantasy?

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:30 AM
So what impression of you do you want the readers of your profile to have, exactly? Do you think your "fantasy" would be better kept private, and shared on an individual basis... rather than put out there for judgment?

FroznChild's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:39 AM

So what impression of you do you want the readers of your profile to have, exactly? Do you think your "fantasy" would be better kept private, and shared on an individual basis... rather than put out there for judgment?


well... no... maybe things could be more clear...
but I think that one should get to know the real you in life...
all your fantisies, and your dreams.
Many of us have fantasies that we "settled" far less then,
only to realise that we never settled at all.
...and if there's a chance out there that I might attain what I seek, shouldn't I, not necessarily take it, or make it happen...
but, lol, at least lay it on the table?
at least it's not so much a surprise later...
when we both find out, neither of us are rich.noway

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:43 AM
You most certainly can have whatever you want in your profile, as it is, after all, yours.

Maybe you're not getting my point.

If I were a wealthy woman, or any woman looking for a man, reading a profile that talked about money would turn me off. I'd see the person as shallow and materialistic. Your repeatedly bringing up finances totally overrides everything else you say. Sad but true. JMO.....

dilligaf1981's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:49 AM
<<<<<<<<< Lost intrest in your profile as soon as I seen it. Dude, people here like to chat, maybe after a few sessions, meet. Not know a 30 minute essay on your life. Your profile is tooo long, shorten it up a bit.

Good Luck drinker smokin

FroznChild's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:50 AM

You most certainly can have whatever you want in your profile, as it is, after all, yours.

Maybe you're not getting my point.

If I were a wealthy woman, or any woman looking for a man, reading a profile that talked about money would turn me off. I'd see the person as shallow and materialistic. Your repeatedly bringing up finances totally overrides everything else you say. Sad but true. JMO.....

lol... thanks for permission. j/k.
the thing is... what would be better? such as...
what would the correct combination of words be, to not so much assume material wealth... but more to relfect, agh... like, independently wealthy... but of mind, and soul?
There is no doubt that you are correct...
lol... believe me, I'm working on it.
(not that you won't remember the original me) lol.

lilith401's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:52 AM
I sincerely wish you good luck in finding whatever it is you are looking for. I did not find your profile to be too long, by the way. A truly interested person will read it in its entirety. flowerforyou

FroznChild's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:02 AM
lol... thanks 1981... every opinion counts...
and thank you, lilith,
for being so honest.
Well, everyone, I'm off to bed... and I'll keep working on the profile...
Till then,
Keep thumbing that nose at me!

With Equescent thoughts...
FroznChild

s1owhand's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:09 AM

(not that you won't remember the original me) lol.


laugh Too Late laugh

personally i think that it is problematic to request that
your potential partner be more financially independent than
yourself. if you yourself are financially independent then
i think it is reasonable to desire a partner who is as well
(although is certainly doesn't always work out that way)
if you think about this thoughtfully a bit you may reach the
same conclusion.

if one seeks a large financial disparity then it suggests
either control or parasitism - neither of which is conducive
to a healthy relationship.

it might be better to simply say that money doesn't matter
if you truly would happily date someone based solely on who
they are regardless of their finances. if she is as poor as
you are then you can build something valuable together. if
she is wealthy she might be able and willing to become your
patroness. but she also might insist on a prenup...laugh laugh laugh laugh

(or sleep around...laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh )

biotchplz79's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:13 AM
OK PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me whats wrong with my profile. And if my pics are OK. I am getting like no interst from anyone! OH GOD..am I that bad????sad

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:47 AM

I thought your profile was very well written. The financial thing though.... you mention this over and over... yet you list your profession as self-reliant.

Honestly, it just comes off as a sugar coated version of "I'm too lazy to work and I want a woman to take care of me".


Well from what I can read that's EXACTLY what he's lookin' for .. but Lilith comeon now girl. Gotta give him credit .. he's willing to complement her for the cushy ride. Yep. Now THAT'S what I'M talkin' bout. laugh laugh laugh

I DO wonder why a woman who has the strength and has her sh*t together would need a guy who gives her what ANY man would give her. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmhuh

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