Topic: any belief
EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:35 PM

okee dokee.. what's your first name?


kim. i just need some peace. i can't take any more

Sure, no problem. Been there plenty of times myself. Don't give up, just change the type of people you trust.

PINKYBLUISH's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:35 PM

i just want to stop caring before it destroys me


first calm down takea deep deep breath...is there anything i can do to help??

its ok to cry ..it helps us to clear our mind...and then jump as strong looking woman u r

DemonicNightAngel's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:36 PM
her acct is no more

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:36 PM

we want you back we care about you!!! she deactivated her account


She'll be back..probably..she just needs time to sort herself out

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:37 PM
wth ? Did she really deactivate ?

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:37 PM

wth ? Did she really deactivate ?

yup..she left

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:40 PM
I had to learn when I was younger to not focus on others but myself. People have their set ways in life and don't want to be pointed out what's wrong...even if you are right. If they need help, they will come to you. I felt I was wasting my time...and it is a waste of time...trying to care for someone that didn't want care. It takes time dear. You are stronger than you know. God never puts more on us than we can bare. In due time, he will relieve the pain you have...the feeling of not wanting to care. Someone will come to you wanting your care, and you will gladly give it to them because they WANT it. Give it time.

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:40 PM


wth ? Did she really deactivate ?

yup..she left


well... you all have my blessing to just slap me with a skillet if I ever react to someone that way again.
I'm never going to EVER let anyone control my feelings that way again.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:40 PM

I had to learn when I was younger to not focus on others but myself. People have their set ways in life and don't want to be pointed out what's wrong...even if you are right. If they need help, they will come to you. I felt I was wasting my time...and it is a waste of time...trying to care for someone that didn't want care. It takes time dear. You are stronger than you know. God never puts more on us than we can bare. In due time, he will relieve the pain you have...the feeling of not wanting to care. Someone will come to you wanting your care, and you will gladly give it to them because they WANT it. Give it time.

agrees

PINKYBLUISH's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:42 PM

I had to learn when I was younger to not focus on others but myself. People have their set ways in life and don't want to be pointed out what's wrong...even if you are right. If they need help, they will come to you. I felt I was wasting my time...and it is a waste of time...trying to care for someone that didn't want care. It takes time dear. You are stronger than you know. God never puts more on us than we can bare. In due time, he will relieve the pain you have...the feeling of not wanting to care. Someone will come to you wanting your care, and you will gladly give it to them because they WANT it. Give it time.

flowerforyou second that...u r such a nice person...u know that..

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:42 PM
Oh No! She must really be in trouble! I really hope she is fine...this is a little too serious. :cry:

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:44 PM



wth ? Did she really deactivate ?

yup..she left


well... you all have my blessing to just slap me with a skillet if I ever react to someone that way again.
I'm never going to EVER let anyone control my feelings that way again.

I used to be like her..some guy somewhere was always upsetting me and making me cry..then one day I just got sick of crying and said no more tears over people that don't deserve them..I haven't cried over a guy in years..and its not that I stopped caring about guys and relationships etc..its because I learned to care about ME more.

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:45 PM
yeah...what a bummer.

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:46 PM




wth ? Did she really deactivate ?

yup..she left


well... you all have my blessing to just slap me with a skillet if I ever react to someone that way again.
I'm never going to EVER let anyone control my feelings that way again.

I used to be like her..some guy somewhere was always upsetting me and making me cry..then one day I just got sick of crying and said no more tears over people that don't deserve them..I haven't cried over a guy in years..and its not that I stopped caring about guys and relationships etc..its because I learned to care about ME more.



right on...flowerforyou

chickayoshi's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:47 PM




wth ? Did she really deactivate ?

yup..she left


well... you all have my blessing to just slap me with a skillet if I ever react to someone that way again.
I'm never going to EVER let anyone control my feelings that way again.

I used to be like her..some guy somewhere was always upsetting me and making me cry..then one day I just got sick of crying and said no more tears over people that don't deserve them..I haven't cried over a guy in years..and its not that I stopped caring about guys and relationships etc..its because I learned to care about ME more.


And that is the way to be yourself...the STRONG you.

passionart's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:48 PM

I don't care what beliefs you may have...I am BEGGING for you to please pray for me, keep me in your thoughts...whatever.


you have my wish for hope, and love, baby... You'll always have my prayers...

passionart's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:48 PM

I don't care what beliefs you may have...I am BEGGING for you to please pray for me, keep me in your thoughts...whatever.


you have my wish for hope, and love, baby... You'll always have my prayers...

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:50 PM





wth ? Did she really deactivate ?

yup..she left


well... you all have my blessing to just slap me with a skillet if I ever react to someone that way again.
I'm never going to EVER let anyone control my feelings that way again.

I used to be like her..some guy somewhere was always upsetting me and making me cry..then one day I just got sick of crying and said no more tears over people that don't deserve them..I haven't cried over a guy in years..and its not that I stopped caring about guys and relationships etc..its because I learned to care about ME more.


And that is the way to be yourself...the STRONG you.

You gotta be strong to live MY life..if you're not..you run the risk of having a breakdown and getting a one way ticket to a mental ward..which I actually almost did..but it wasn't over a guy..it was my life in general that did that to me.

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:54 PM
well...I hope she's ok...she seemed like a sweet and funny lady from the other threads...

passionart's photo
Sat 03/01/08 09:57 PM

I had to learn when I was younger to not focus on others but myself. People have their set ways in life and don't want to be pointed out what's wrong...even if you are right. If they need help, they will come to you. I felt I was wasting my time...and it is a waste of time...trying to care for someone that didn't want care. It takes time dear. You are stronger than you know. God never puts more on us than we can bare. In due time, he will relieve the pain you have...the feeling of not wanting to care. Someone will come to you wanting your care, and you will gladly give it to them because they WANT it. Give it time.
AMEN, SISTA!!! Got a little caught-up in the moment...(smile)