I date married women all the time.........

I'm wondering if that isn't the reason for increase in the pervy e-mails.
Cheaters create so much hurt. Never done that, nor would I.

Some of the best relationships end, due to curiosity. Sad!

Geee, maybe if I pretend to be married I can get a date!

different strokes for different folks,but I know I'm to old fasion for that type of crap,but all have a rite to advertize. Hay mirror pass the bottle I need a shot of whisky

Well Said!!!!!!

Hell I use that site all the time. Already tagged six housewives and only had to hide in the closet once.

I have a solution to that problem.... cheating that is,
Don't get married. If you are going steady, and want to cheat, just don't lie about it.

To cheat, a lie has to be involved. Just tell your lover that you want to see that other gal or guy over there.

People don't own each other.

They pay so we can play

(Yeh, I know, I'm evil)

Thought we were talking about how bad that is, guess I'm in the wrong crowd. Never been the moral one-this sucks

If they were "the best" relationship, they would not have "ended."

Shut up, Beavis!

Not necessarily true. Sometimes, for the sake of curiosity and indulging oneself, and if an opportunity arises, people have destroyed relationships they were happy in. Not everyone cheats because they are "unhappy" in their relationship. Unfortunately, this is one "mistake" that can't be taken back or undone.

But it can be forgiven. IF the relationship is good and both partners still love each other, why let a little screwing around break it up?

Maybe I can get a bite there

Because the trust is gone. How can one have a relationship without trust? And it hurts.

once you open that loaf of bread you wont miss a couple slices

The lack of trust comes when a person lies, and breaks a promise, yes this is very true. I think people need to have more understanding of the reasons people stray, or else just decide not to lie to each other.

Yes, you should keep your promises, but don't make promises you can't keep. If you promise not to stray and you do, you will loose trust. If you lie, you will loose trust. If your partner forgives you anyway, it will still be hard to regain that trust again. You, the cheater and the lier, is the looser here, not the person who has been lied to. You are the looser because you have ruined your reputation and your good name by breaking a promise.

People are only human. Break a promise, more than once and you will cause permanent damage to the relationship and that does not only mean by cheating. Any promise made should be kept. It is not about sex. It is about honesty and trust.

Jeannie

Jeannie,

I agree with what you said.

But..to me, marriage is the ultimate promise of fidelity. Having an affair is a major trust breaker and it's usually not repairable.

huh