I had recently placed a post about a problem I had had which is on page 2 .You should prob read it.

So now I have been forgiven of acting like a fool. She just says that she was completely happy with the way that I treated her. That I would be the type of man she would want a serious relationship with. But,...she does not want that right now. She says she doesn't want a boyfriend.Doesn't want anything serious.

She says that if she is asked out she would go out with another guy if she wanted to. She says she wants to sleep with me .But I can't stay the night and I can't see the kids. Yah I failed to mention in part 1 that she had 2 kids Eric and Daniel which I became atached to in that time also.

I don't know what to do ? I mean I do have feelings for this women and I wanted a future with her. But how should I be acting right now with all this. I don't see myself liking it very much her dating other guys. But,then again she would only sleep with me? I am so lost on what to do I am afraid I will make the wrong decision. I really don't know what is going to happen or if I should even bother and just say that I am done with it.
I mean if I was great and treated her great and she loved it ??? What am I spose to think?

you have to think of what you want as well....obviously she isnt ready to commit to you so ......its time to move on to someone that will make you happy and fits into the lifestyle you want

it sounds like she needs her space and yet she will date others but only sleep with you, shows there are still feelingsm but then in ways she taking advantage of your heart and soul and thats not right

Well after all this I don't think I willing to commit to anyone at this point either.


But , then agian what is wrong with just sex? I mean really? but, the problem is I don't know if I can just look at it that way. Is this a hump that we must climb or what.Am I just a patch until she gets the wound fixed? I still am lost about what to think . i mean my heart is!! involved which may make the situation a little hairy.

Anyway going to bed now . Hope to see some opinions here in the morning . I really need help on trying to figure this one out.

Wow ,,, no responses huh. Is this too deep of a subject or what. I had expected some responses but, I guess no one has any advise???