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Topic: still friends
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Sun 09/03/06 10:21 AM
how many people really stay friends(not just being civil to each
other)with their ex?

SteveJarvis's photo
Sun 09/03/06 11:17 AM
I am good friends with all but one ex, and that one is fucking crazy
anyways.

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Sun 09/03/06 11:29 AM
i would assume then that it was mutual or you are both mature right

SteveJarvis's photo
Sun 09/03/06 11:30 AM
I guess. It's not like I want to talk to her either.

She pretty much went over the deep end and basically started stalking
me.

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Sun 09/03/06 11:39 AM
lol sorry man i guess i have a different definition of friends

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Sun 09/03/06 11:40 AM
every body, i'd like you to meet my stalker renee. c'mon renee introduce
yourself to everybody don;t be shy lol

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Sun 09/03/06 02:05 PM
That won't work for me.

unsure's photo
Sun 09/03/06 02:45 PM
I have remained friends with the ex...but its only because of the boys!
I need to stay in contact to let him know things..if we didn't have
children together, then NO I would not even talk to him again.

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Sun 09/03/06 02:49 PM
i'm not talking about being civil with each other, i mean a real friend
where you still hang out and enjoy each others company but don't have
sex

unsure's photo
Sun 09/03/06 02:51 PM
I use to go and do the cookout thing with the ex when his parents were
still living. But now that they are gone....I don't see any reason to,
he can take the boys and see them on his own. He has invited me over to
hang out with them and eat pizza...but I just said "No this is your
time"

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Sun 09/03/06 02:56 PM
i tried it before and i'm not against it i think it is possible but i
just did not like the person became. it wasn't like the relationship
didn't work. she completely changed and i did not like the way she acted

amacree's photo
Sun 09/03/06 02:57 PM
i am still really close 2 my ex, not just for the kids either, we get
along better now than we did the whole nine years we were married.

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Sun 09/03/06 02:59 PM
that's good. i think it's possible to like them as a person but be
incompatible as a couple

unsure's photo
Sun 09/03/06 03:01 PM
Yep me and my ex are better apart. I wish him nothing but the best and I
think he use to feel the same about me...now I am not so sure!!

amacree's photo
Sun 09/03/06 03:02 PM
the way i see it we were friends for four years before we started datin
and everything went to hell after we got married. we tried everything to
make it work just nothin helped. now we are friends again and have
realized that is all there ever can be with us.

unsure's photo
Sun 09/03/06 03:05 PM
Do you guys find though if you do start dating someone else that your ex
seems to be a little bit more demanding? Like mine would not come and
get the boys on his weekends because he thought I had plans with my new
bf...so he would automatically screw up my plans. Just curious if anyone
else has this problem?

amacree's photo
Sun 09/03/06 03:10 PM
my situations alittle different cause my ex is a driller so he works 20
days on and 10 days off, on his days off he stays with me and the kids,
in his own room mind u, but those days r his and i can do as i please,
we have an agreement that no signifagant others r 2 meet the kids till
the other has met them first. it sounds strange but is what works for
us.

unsure's photo
Sun 09/03/06 03:46 PM
My ex and I had that agreement...no one would allow anyone to spend the
night with the boys in the house. I never bring home a guy..EVER! My ex
broke the agreement but that was his choice not to stand by his
word....and the boys are the ones who thinks less of him for having
women spending the night.

amacree's photo
Sun 09/03/06 04:05 PM
well i am sure that if my ex had his own place he wouldnt stick with the
agreement either, i am very protective of my babies tho. then again they
r only 3yrs and 21 months so if i dont protect them who will.

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Tue 09/05/06 11:18 PM
NO REASON TO DO SO!

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