so im thinking about deactivaiting i dont know how long or if it will br permanently,i have been lurking for a few days now which thats something i dont normally do

it seems like there has been a big spike in rude/immature people here lately and i dont want to be a part of something that has a spike in rude people!

end the spike
end the spike

Its going to happen where ever you go. That's how society is now adays.

i've never met you bee but i feel that you shall be great loss to the people that care about you on here

I am the spokesman for the immature:mmmmmmmmm..ok..bye bye then

dont go just because some people are immature..smiles

southernbee...I think if I lived by that philosophy, I'd have to check out of life. You offer a lot to the positivity here, and I hope that you rethink your decision. You know there are a lot of good people here, too...you are one of them.

well one person rude and immature is another one's comedy .. Sorry if I ever harshed your mellow but I mean no harm .. well most of the time ...

stick around it will drive them crazy

wonder..is that ur son...???if yes ..he is so cute....

just talk to the mature ones and make fun of the assholes. That's what I do and it works for me.

Yep, thats my 2y/o energy machine.

I think it has something to do with the season. It isn't just here, it's in my normally friendly area.

Yeppers...

i understand there and uncessaary people that should be alowed to live on this earth i work in a call center..

it just seems to me like this site has become more like high school and less like a place to come for a good time and to get support from

i pride myself on being honest all the time,and in all honsetly this site could do with out a few members and id be more then happy to delete thier account..

I noticed that also, but it seems to be getting better. If you want, take a break, but don't leave forever.

Don't check out to soon...never no what you might miss

So let me get this straight because of a few jackholes you are going to cut and run and let the douchebags win ?? Come on girl get a backbone .. where would this country be if everyone did that .. You have the right to be here .. so do they so don't let them win by leaving ... just mho

Well I'm not sure what you're referring to but there are some people that are funny and it maybe be stupid funny to some or not so nice to others... I know a lot of people that fit that description, myself as well, Hiker and others, but we are good people who bust chops and have fun and usually only bust chops on the needy, are rude threads... But hey that's jmho....

i also pride myself on being honest. there have been times when my honesty was taken for rude. i too work with people in need. i have been in outreach for many years. doesnt mean i do not have compassion for people. generally i can tell if someone is making a serious plea or just being an idiot. this is a site for people to be themselves. sure there are jerks that irritate me, but i overlook them. do i let them upset me to this point? nope, perhaps you are putting too much energy into this if it is upsetting you so badly. otherwise, move on to the next topic or ignor them. you cant stop people from being themselves and expressing things the way they see it. who are we to judge? JMO