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Topic: How soon is too soon to ask someone out for coffee
Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 07:47 PM
hey hiker are you bags packed for this guilt trip ?? It is the American Way Baby .... Yeah, I know

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 07:47 PM
Ahhh, you all scared him off anyway. He heard you talking and is now probably going to transfer to a seminary

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 02/25/08 07:48 PM
snakes make me nervous,but im calm around frogs I got bit by a boa constrictor once. It hurt.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Mon 02/25/08 07:49 PM
Where is that helicopter ???

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Mon 02/25/08 07:56 PM
helicopters are loud,frogs make different sounds.

whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Mon 02/25/08 07:56 PM
I will try and get her to de-ipod tomorrow or just talk to her after class. Either way I have to try and do something.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 07:57 PM
So sad. Don't you women watch lifetime? Don't you feel the pain of that poor boy's unrequited love?

whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Mon 02/25/08 07:58 PM
Ha. I would hardly call it an unrequited love rather it is just a possible interest.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 07:59 PM
Ha. I would hardly call it an unrequited love rather it is just a possible interest. shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I knew that. I'm trying to make them feel guilty. so young so naive

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM Edited by Unknow on Mon 02/25/08 08:08 PM
I will try and get her to de-ipod tomorrow or just talk to her after class. Either way I have to try and do something. I really hate the word try. This should not be tough. Just get her to take it off. Make her laugh. Ask her out... Keep it simple. It really is nothing to be nervous about

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
its just coffee!! nuttin to be worried about.

whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Mon 02/25/08 08:14 PM
I'm just an overly shy person. >_>

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 08:24 PM
Think, what is the worst that could happen. She'll say no. Life will go on. But here is the thing. Confidence sells. Don't be overly aggressive or obnoxious, but everyone likes someone with confidence. Be confident and make her laugh. That'll get you where you want to be most of the time. JMO

whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Mon 02/25/08 08:27 PM
My friend just said the funniest thing "every time you don't talk to her you're getting rejected and then he said what is this a million times"

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 08:40 PM
When opportunity knocks open the door. It won't knock a second time

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 02/25/08 08:49 PM
I'm done Good luck and remember keep it simple. Headphones off confident and fun and ask. Not any of this I was wondering whether you would want crap. MAN UP. Just say I think you're beautiful and I'd love to take you out for a cup of coffee________ fill in the date and time

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 02/26/08 05:50 PM
Sure, why not.

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Wed 02/27/08 10:57 AM
Talking a real life situation here. Is it ok after say 2 days of knowing each other just to casually ask out for a cup of coffee? Certainly not a date, but just a friendly get-together after class. i see no reason why not

ChiefPUA Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 1175	Wed 02/27/08 09:36 PM
you should wait AT LEAST 71 days, 2 hours, 47 minutes, and 12 seconds after meeting someone to ask them out to coffee. If you can time that EXACTLY on the dot, it means you two are soulmates. Actually, you could easily arrange a coffee date with someone you just met half a minute ago.

cpt_johhny Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 469	Wed 02/27/08 09:43 PM
you should wait AT LEAST 71 days, 2 hours, 47 minutes, and 12 seconds after meeting someone to ask them out to coffee. If you can time that EXACTLY on the dot, it means you two are soulmates. Actually, you could easily arrange a coffee date with someone you just met half a minute ago. Ha, don't say that. You know someones gonna try it.