im getting emails on here from people telling me my gf who we are trying to have a baby telling me that shes cheating on me. on of my female friends was talking to a guy and he told her that him and my gr are dating. i asked my gf and she said its not true. should i believe her or should i email the guy and ask him about it??

email him and ask him

email him... though it's good to trust her... don't go blindly trusting people.

Put off the baby making...reevaluate your realtionship...

I agree

If your GF is dating someone else, why would she admit it? Of course she will say she isn't. Emailing the other guy may not get you a truthful answer either.
On the other hand, how trustworthy are the persons who told you this?

Talk to him too... hopefully she is being honest with you.
I would deffinately check it out though. Good luck.
it could just be cyber gosipe...

Totally agree with this!!!

1. Where there is smoke, there is fire.

2. Why in the world would you try to make a baby before getting married???

AGREED.

email him, shes not gonna tell u the truth.... Save urself a world of heartache w the baby

have you noticed any change in her,has she seemed kinda distant,is she unavilable when before she was available all the time but last but not least when she shows up is this guy with her ..go detective on her snoop around ...

You have a girlfriend that your trying to have a baby with, yet your on a dating site!!! It just sounds strange to me, but definately find out because she probably is cheating.

I agree also...

Instinct and intuition can say a lot more than you think.

Completely forget about the entire notion of cheating and just hang out with your girlfriend a bit...

After a while, try to notice if you are acting any more jealous than usual. Try to notice if she gives any complaints saying that you've become more jealous or posessive or anything like that.

Here's the thing... when a female in a relationship cheats on her significant other, she knows it, and will give off evolutionarily hard-wired subtle cues that she may be seeing other men. These cues are very subtle and she will not be aware of them. YOU will not be consciously aware of them, either, but your BODY will. You will not KNOW if she cheated on you, but you will FEEL that she cheated on you.

There was a psychological study done (I forgot the details of who did it and when it was done so I can't cite my sources... I look into a LOT of psychology studies) where the population being studied consisted of couples in relationship counseling, where the woman was complaining about the fact that the man has been acting irrationally more posessive and jealous lately, and his temper would wane toward anger a lot easier.

The researchers would pull the women aside and tell them that they are doing a survey study for science, and that anything she tells them would be completely anonymous and confidential. They asked the women, "Have you ever cheated on him?" The vast majority (I forgot the percent) of the women admitted yes.

These men in relationship counseling could not explain why they were being more jealous and posessive lately. They admitted to the fact that it may be a problem in the relationship and they were very much confused themselves... but apparently their bodies were only responding to evolutionary triggers that said, "she's cheating on you."

It was all intuition/instinct.

Drama spinners.... you have two choices, buy into the tiny minds of others, or focus on your partner....

I thought mini drama daytime soaps had ad breaks...

I would talk to the guy. If he is spreading rumors, you have the right. Take a witness for your protection. **** happens and ****t gets out of control once you ask those kind of questions.

get yourself together first and keep it in your pants! Or you will get a real screwing down the road!

You could always ask the guy for certain details that only one that actually dated and/or is dating her would know...or could hire those spy vs. spy guys from Mad TV, but they'll probably end up killing each other before actually finding out the truth...

I agree!