Im curious to know what people thinks makes a good profile ???

What do you look for in it before you decide to message someone,

And is there anything that if you saw it on a profile would totally put you off messaging someone ?????

xxJovigalxx


ps: Please feel free to rate my profile by the way

I give points for sincerity, originality, openess and a sense of humor. Your particular profile is quite lovely

If I were you, I wouldn't be concerned about what others think about you, your profile, what you have written in it or not, how many pics. you have and what kind they are, etc. Be who you are, say what is on your mind and in your heart. State what it is (briefly) of what you're seeking in others and what turns you off.. but honestly, the more you say about what you're looking for; the more you're giving others room to "pretend" to be such character. Write people, learn of them and allow them (if you choose to) to learn of you. You'll find out eventually if they are worth your time, energy and/or even your emotions.

People have to learn to play it safe on the net.. don't give in and wish to be like others for attention (in the end, it's not worth it anyway).

Good luck with your search!

Honesty. Just be yourself...

Look for a person that portays themselves to be a certain way... whatever that might be for you. If you read something you like, that sparks your interest, then go for it.

I always thought of it this way, for a bare minimum of information:

Imagine you are "speed dating" and you have five minutes to ask questions of someone you immediately like the presence of... what would you want to know about them? Then write those responses (about yourself) in your own profile.

Ya married and looking for intimate encounter .. total turnoff..

I like getting a sense of who they are .. how fun? easy going? happy person ..... I get that more from HOW they write about themselves than what things they like to do ...