hahaha well hes cuter in person i swear

That sucks!!! Unfortunately it happens a lot.

A classic tactic of a cheater who has been caught, is to deny and manipulate you in some manner...either by accusing you..or playing on your emotions.
He will tell you whatever he thinks you want to hear to have things his way. If he moved up there with you, this is not behavior of a man who is interested in an exclusive relationship with you. I think he is using you, and he will continue to do so as long as you let him. Best to kick him to the curb now before he really does a number on your heart and feelings.

Actually it just makes him uglier hearing about how he is... give yourself a little slap and wake up from the nightmare before it's too late... he's a moocher that came all the way from Alabama to use you. Kick him to the curb or live with a cheater... your choice

that's right!

Just sent an email. I'll let you know what happens. I saw you on his friends list so I'll get them to you.

I was married and preg with our 2nd and he left me 8 months along bc he got the gf knocked up too. Don't fall for his lies. It's not worth it and you can do SOOOOOO much better. You deserve someone who wants to be with you for you not for a place to live. Send his ass packing.

lol maybe hun..he made his way around

I was 9 months pregnant with my first child and a man came to my door requesting I ask my husband to stay away from his wife. I didn't want to see it so I believed what he said. He ended up leaving me for another woman when our daughter was a year old.

Wow Allsmiles I am sorry this happened to you. No one should ever have this happen to them.
My first ex got pregnant by someone else while we were only married a few months, and my second ex slept with my dad.

Holy crap, that sucks

Double Holy Crap!!

My point for sharing this is to point out that, for whatever reason, we choose not to see things we know in our gut are true.

I could never cheat on anyone, I think anyone that can do that to another person is a lowlife, and I will tell them to thier face. I hate that crap. Some guy's think it's funny, or a game, but I see nothing funny about it at all. It's something I just don't understand.

If you feel it in your gut than believe that feeling and act accordingly. IMO I'd say he is playing you sweetie. You deserve better!

It sucks, but it happens. There are people that are in couplehood that stay online for forums and friends. However, their profile is very obvious as to their status.

Your gut and heart and head are telling you what to do. Not to be cliche, but sometimes it does just not work out.

Hugs, M

Atleantaqueeen...... Something is very strange here. I checked out your profile and note you are from New York. So, this guy moved from Alabama to come to New York. That is quite a move since it means that he gave up his home, job, family, and friends to be with you.

Okay, now in order to give you good advice, you need to tell us a little more. Is this guy living with you? If so, has he got a job and is he paying his share of the rent? Additionally, is he taking you out on real dates?

If this guy is doing all of the above, has a job, paying his share of the expenses, and taking you out, then tell him up front you do not like him chatting with other women on line and that the two of you need to delete your profiles and get off the dating sites. It is possible this guy doesn't realize what he is doing is not proper behavior.

However, if this guy is freeloading from you, no job, not paying expenses, not taking you anywhere, dump him, or as someone said put him out with the trash.