Hi. I have been talking to a man I met here on JSH, about a month and a half ago. I have been sending him emails from here and wondering why I haven't gotten responses to them. Since we IM each other and even talk by phone I had no idea there was a prob with the mail...but he says he hasn't received an email from me on JSH since Valentine's Day....and that can't be right! I have sent several emails since then. Why are my emails not going through then?

*coughs* LIAR !!!! he is

I don't think there should be a problem with the mailing unless your friend had set a restriction on his e-mail. If he has, he may want to change it. If not... ...no answer here.

Sometimes the mail does mess up.
Tell him to e-mail you- and then hit reply to his e-mail to write him and see if he gets it that way.
If he does'nt than...
He might be playing you.
Also when someone reads your mail there will be a check on it that it has been read. Hopefully its just a mess up.

Think I figured out what it is. He must have just not known the emails were in there. The guy works MAD hours, about 80 hours a week right now...so I guess it's understandable that he doesn't always keep up with mail. The only problem is, I am starting to have feelings for him already...and I hate the fact that I get worked up when he doesn't immediately respond to my mail. Is it possible to tell yourself to just SLOW down when it comes to matters of the heart?

off site email address will interfer with delivery with on site email

you know me and this guy i had been talking to is having the same problem but the admin. cant figure out why it's happening,he hasn't gotten any of mine since 2-12 but like you we can im each other.

Snowangel, go to the mail section and check the "Sent" mail part. It should show if your guy friend has read your mail or not. I wish you luck! I figured out my mail problem....it was just that he hadn't read his mail yet. Now the problem is that he had promised to be online to talk to me YESTERDAY..and now it's been two whole days since I've heard from him or seen him online. Makes me just wanna give up on men! I know it may seem silly, but when are in the beginnings of a relationship (so you think) and one person puts more into it than the other...it's sad. I hope it's nothing, and that I will hear from him soon!

Don't were your heart on your sleeve sweety..chalk it up to expeierence misspelled there are mo.. fish where that one came from....And I love to fish join me....lol