Topic: Battle of the sexes
shoes4rhon's photo
Thu 02/21/08 12:54 PM




and I stated my take on it .. biblical submission is what i believe in .. I am not debating what I think .. I am curious what others think...
biblical submission. Love, Honor, and Obey.


Yes but you have to always remember that before the obey part and the vows that the man takes are ... to put her best interest before his and to basically be willing to lay down his life for his family ... I can get my bible if you need the passages
You dont need your Bible.A woman is going to make sure that eveyday of that mans life he knows that part


Brian - that is not true but possible thru your experiance .. I have not met that many men that are being raised with this in mind .. the breakdown of the american family started when the first man walked away from his children and that was socially acceptable...

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Thu 02/21/08 12:55 PM

A woman is going to make sure that eveyday of that mans life he knows that part


Wow! I am no stranger to bad relationships.. but apparently my bad ones must have been a cake walk!

shoes4rhon's photo
Thu 02/21/08 12:56 PM


A woman is going to make sure that eveyday of that mans life he knows that part


Wow! I am no stranger to bad relationships.. but apparently my bad ones must have been a cake walk!



But he is not bitter ...

madamx7316's photo
Thu 02/21/08 12:57 PM

Well.... I'm going to have to say yes, partly.

For tax purposes we'd have to see what the pros and cons were, so to speak.

But would I mind giving up some control? At first, probably I would. It's not all about me, though. I've been in a relationship where I was forced to be head of household and I resented it.

In the long run I think I'd be a happier person if I gave some of my current control over to a person I trusted, loved, and respected....


very true...when you are forced to "wear the pants" you do resent it. having someone to share in it would be ideal. but you do have to have that respect and trust.

briancarr's photo
Thu 02/21/08 12:58 PM





and I stated my take on it .. biblical submission is what i believe in .. I am not debating what I think .. I am curious what others think...
biblical submission. Love, Honor, and Obey.


Yes but you have to always remember that before the obey part and the vows that the man takes are ... to put her best interest before his and to basically be willing to lay down his life for his family ... I can get my bible if you need the passages
You dont need your Bible.A woman is going to make sure that eveyday of that mans life he knows that part


Brian - that is not true but possible thru your experiance .. I have not met that many men that are being raised with this in mind .. the breakdown of the american family started when the first man walked away from his children and that was socially acceptable...
Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 02/21/08 12:59 PM
the head of the household is the toilet!

lilith401's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:01 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Thu 02/21/08 01:01 PM

Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes


Woahh... who got these women pregnant and then walked, ran, or scurried away? Who made it acceptable? All the women who couldn't find the men who chose to lie down in bed with them and then not take responsibility?? Did they just sit around and decide it was okay? Or was it the men, all hiding out in caves working under the table jobs.... laughing? They said it was acceptable?
I don't think it's acceptable...

madamx7316's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:03 PM


Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes


Woahh... who got these women pregnant and then walked, ran, or scurried away? Who made it acceptable? All the women who couldn't find the men who chose to lie down in bed with them and then not take responsibility?? Did they just sit around and decide it was okay? Or was it the men, all hiding out in caves working under the table jobs.... laughing? They said it was acceptable?
I don't think it's acceptable...


applauding loudly!!! holy cow what a comment!!! huh

shoes4rhon's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:03 PM






and I stated my take on it .. biblical submission is what i believe in .. I am not debating what I think .. I am curious what others think...
biblical submission. Love, Honor, and Obey.


Yes but you have to always remember that before the obey part and the vows that the man takes are ... to put her best interest before his and to basically be willing to lay down his life for his family ... I can get my bible if you need the passages
You dont need your Bible.A woman is going to make sure that eveyday of that mans life he knows that part


Brian - that is not true but possible thru your experiance .. I have not met that many men that are being raised with this in mind .. the breakdown of the american family started when the first man walked away from his children and that was socially acceptable...
Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes


I think that babies out of wedlock is a two way thing it takes two to tango

eve ate the apple has a free choice thing and it seems a bit silly to blame everything on that .. express oil changes are neccessary when someone has married an abusive man who did not take his vows nor his obligations seriously .. I did however step up to the plate to raise our daughter .. I have also not remarried at this juncture in my life .. both genders have failed the other in several cases ..

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Thu 02/21/08 01:04 PM
yes, just ask my brotherlaugh

lilith401's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:04 PM



Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes


Woahh... who got these women pregnant and then walked, ran, or scurried away? Who made it acceptable? All the women who couldn't find the men who chose to lie down in bed with them and then not take responsibility?? Did they just sit around and decide it was okay? Or was it the men, all hiding out in caves working under the table jobs.... laughing? They said it was acceptable?
I don't think it's acceptable...


applauding loudly!!! holy cow what a comment!!! huh


<--------TYVM.... Curtsey here. blushing

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:05 PM
Hmmmm..so yesterday women were too fat,now today they should submit?Im outa here life is tooooo short for this!!!!

shoes4rhon's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:06 PM

Hmmmm..so yesterday women were too fat,now today they should submit?Im outa here life is tooooo short for this!!!!




lol Cam .. I started this thread and we are discussing biblical submission

briancarr's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:06 PM


Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes


Woahh... who got these women pregnant and then walked, ran, or scurried away? Who made it acceptable? All the women who couldn't find the men who chose to lie down in bed with them and then not take responsibility?? Did they just sit around and decide it was okay? Or was it the men, all hiding out in caves working under the table jobs.... laughing? They said it was acceptable?
I don't think it's acceptable...
You are responsible for opening and closing your legs. If you feel that a man, or men are not trustworthy, then choose wisely. a man has NO right, by law to tell a woman what to do with her body. He only has to pay child support. Please dont leave out the career gold diggers that get knock up for a pay day.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:06 PM

Hmmmm..so yesterday women were too fat,now today they should submit?Im outa here life is tooooo short for this!!!!


I soooooooooo hear ya! drinker >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:07 PM
is that a wrestling match between Jesus and Moses?

shoes4rhon's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:09 PM



Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes


Woahh... who got these women pregnant and then walked, ran, or scurried away? Who made it acceptable? All the women who couldn't find the men who chose to lie down in bed with them and then not take responsibility?? Did they just sit around and decide it was okay? Or was it the men, all hiding out in caves working under the table jobs.... laughing? They said it was acceptable?
I don't think it's acceptable...
You are responsible for opening and closing your legs. If you feel that a man, or men are not trustworthy, then choose wisely. a man has NO right, by law to tell a woman what to do with her body. He only has to pay child support. Please dont leave out the career gold diggers that get knock up for a pay day.


I was married and no maybe I did not choose wisely .. but none this less I have a beautiful baby girl that needs shoes and clothes and a deadbeat ex husband .. there are much worse things in life to have .. but not all woman are like that nor are all men.. but most of us have not had the choice .. we just had to do it on our own and then we get dogged for doing it ..

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:11 PM
threads are vicious....love,love,love..All we need is love!!!

no photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:11 PM

You are responsible for opening and closing your legs. If you feel that a man, or men are not trustworthy, then choose wisely.


Hmmmm.. I'm really sure this line should serve you well in that endeavor. Umm.. Sincerely, I am not trying to offend you Brian... But.. You do realize you are on a dating site don't you?

madamx7316's photo
Thu 02/21/08 01:12 PM



Are you sure about that. You dont think it started with Eve eating that Apple. Cant be when it started to be acceptable for woman to have babies out of wedlock, or having abortions, like express oil changes


Woahh... who got these women pregnant and then walked, ran, or scurried away? Who made it acceptable? All the women who couldn't find the men who chose to lie down in bed with them and then not take responsibility?? Did they just sit around and decide it was okay? Or was it the men, all hiding out in caves working under the table jobs.... laughing? They said it was acceptable?
I don't think it's acceptable...
You are responsible for opening and closing your legs. If you feel that a man, or men are not trustworthy, then choose wisely. a man has NO right, by law to tell a woman what to do with her body. He only has to pay child support. Please dont leave out the career gold diggers that get knock up for a pay day.


are you friggen serious? what about the women who are FORCED? are you going to tell us next that they asked for it? so a man can have sex with a woman and his ONLY responsibility for the outcome of pregnancy is child support? give me a fricken break! im just gonna stop now.....omg lmao holy crap!!!!!laugh noway