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Topic: P.O'd
hikerchick's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:12 PM




No no no no ..run! RUN!

This guy is already being CONTROLLING.

And guys who start out controlling quickly alienate you from your friends and family.

That is when they become abusive.

It is a clear pattern.

If he can't be understand about something so simple, he is an ass. Kick him to the curb.

here is a wise advice from a wise woman...she told me to run so i did...


Thanks. You're right. And he's still sending this IM. I will just have to tell him he is not understanding me and I can't deal with this anymore. I would hate to do this to him, but it is the only way he will listen to me. :cry:


well rather doing something like that to him that bring it some not very nice moments upon u


do you have bad memories pinky? I have some doozies. Glad to be alive is all I can say. And honestly, glad to be single. No bruises that way!

PINKYBLUISH's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:16 PM



do you have bad memories pinky? I have some doozies. Glad to be alive is all I can say. And honestly, glad to be single. No bruises that way!


yeap kind of have some---and yes no bruises here either...and i ran as hell...glad family was there to support me

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:21 PM
I blocked him. Now the other problem...he has my number. Usually I never give out my number. He gave me his...then I text him...now he has my number. I am going to go to my phone provider and see if I can get his number blocked from my phone. Like in Kelly Clarkson's song brokenheart NEVER AGAIN!

hikerchick's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:21 PM
this is why I get scared every time I see a woman even thinking about getting involved with a controlling man ..because that is how it starts..

and it is not only men..my daughter dated a girl who did the same thing...

PINKYBLUISH's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:23 PM
yes do that...and he wont call u again so stay calm--

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:39 PM
Trying to. Besides, I really don't get involved with guys online. That's why I have my profile set to just friends. You know? I didn't want to jump into anything without actually knowing the person face to face. Well, I have school at 2 pm, so that will give me plenty of time to get things taken care of. That, and get some good sleep. I can't sleep now. I was going to go to bed before all this happened. yawn

hikerchick's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:41 PM

Trying to. Besides, I really don't get involved with guys online. That's why I have my profile set to just friends. You know? I didn't want to jump into anything without actually knowing the person face to face. Well, I have school at 2 pm, so that will give me plenty of time to get things taken care of. That, and get some good sleep. I can't sleep now. I was going to go to bed before all this happened. yawn


well any time you are unsure if a guy exhibits the pattern of an abuser, check with me. I have had two of them.

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 02/20/08 10:49 PM


Trying to. Besides, I really don't get involved with guys online. That's why I have my profile set to just friends. You know? I didn't want to jump into anything without actually knowing the person face to face. Well, I have school at 2 pm, so that will give me plenty of time to get things taken care of. That, and get some good sleep. I can't sleep now. I was going to go to bed before all this happened. yawn


well any time you are unsure if a guy exhibits the pattern of an abuser, check with me. I have had two of them.


Thanks...I'm glad I have friends here. Even my friends outside the web will back me up. Thank you all for listening. flowerforyou

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