I'm a bit larger than average and I'd rather a guy say he's not into me and save me the time and effort instead of him being nice to spare my feelings and all.

yea me too lol oh well, if someone doesn't wanna date me for my weight, his loss. More power to ya in your search.

Amen to that

love all women..shape size irrelevant

Must have a brain, and know how to use it!!!

Me too, I love honesty, and welcome it. If someone just doesn't like me or doesn't like the way I look, or doesn't like what I am wearing...I would like the truth. It doesn't hurt my feelings, but it does hurt my feelings when someone is not honest with me.

I just think it's all about what you like not about what other people think you should like. Be honest. There's a difference in being honest and being mean or rude. If you put it the way you did here I don't think there should be any problems. If you say something mean or hurtful it would be a whole different story.

I'm right there with you. Right on.

Thank you lynn,I dont want to be hurtful just truethful

Wow, I must be cool to have two radios in my head... I'm listening to "Fat Bottomed Girls" and "Baby Got Back" at the same time.

Be truthful. I always am. If a guy trys to talk to me and he's much older I tell him right away in the first message back that it's not gonna happen cause age does matter to me. For the most part they're glad I was honest.

I have had a few negative comments because I stated that I don't like tattoos, and that if anyone has one not to bother because they will just be waisting their time.
They still try to convince me that I would like them.
I have nothing against anyone that has a tattoo, I just think they are ugly and a real turn off to me.
My son has several, and I love him very much...I just wish he didn't have the tattoos. I have close friends that have them.
But I would never consider a romantic relationship with someone that had one.

Its a preference and a matter of attraction... be honest...Big girls need love too, just not from me ..heheheh

Celticpride I agree

Everyone has a preference....

In my opinion....it would be NICE to find an honest, caring, loving and passionate man...NO matter what his size is. Do you think that....that could be possible in a world FULL of liars and cheaters????

I wish you luck in your search.....

Wait...were not talking breasts are we....

NO that is another topic

Hey Iowa,

That profile is very kind, we all should be that honest. I don't say anything like that in my profile and I feel the same way. And when I respond to them I normally say they live too far away. In an attempt to try and not be cruel or hurt their feelings.