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Topic: "Cougar" searching
soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 02/18/08 04:04 PM
What's immoral about hitting on someone older than you, regardless of how much older? A little bit of a stretch, yes, but immoral, no.

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Mon 02/18/08 04:04 PM
Nothin wrong with cougar relationships, women hit their sexual peak later in life where men usually do earlier so it goes well. As long as the generational differences do not make it hard, who am I to say anything. Besides I have indulged in my time, the younger guys really loved to take me out and have a good time. There are some very informed mature young men these days. No biggie really. Hear Hear. As far as blatant sexual questions, that has nothing to do with age group just that persons mentality. I know lots of younger girls on here who have this same problem with men in their 40s and 50s. Please dont lump people into a group based on age.

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 02/18/08 04:05 PM
I'm pretty sure this has come up before but what is going on with super young guys hitting up on older women? While I don't mind being friends with any age group, I can't imagine 19 to 23 yr. olds hitting up on someone my age. The blatant sexual questions are out there. The baffling thing is right on my profile I state I have high morals. How many women are getting odd questions posed? Grosses me out knowing someone my son's age,is thinking about me that way. but what happens if the exact opposite happens? i've been getting e-mails from more mature ladies wanting to do all sorts of salacious, wicked, lascivious, and sometimes perverted things to me! i'm sure you'll reply, "well... then THAT'S okay, then...". ditto.

emlo Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 201	Mon 02/18/08 04:06 PM
its a little wird though sometimes ya must admit

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 02/18/08 04:06 PM
Hey M.M., I was searching for your name, but I don't think you'd like them sent your way...gender speaking. Great day to all. I'm still half asleep.

BatCountry Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 1383	Mon 02/18/08 04:07 PM
I understand that your saying its not right for you, but you didnt have to insult people with the wording of your question. Theres nothing morally wrong with two people being different ages and being in love. There isnt a religion on earth that says its wrong.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 02/18/08 04:07 PM Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 02/18/08 04:08 PM


KennethP5206 Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 2082	Mon 02/18/08 04:07 PM
They may have energy but I don't!! Nor the patience to have to teach anyone anything in the bedroom.

emlo Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 201	Mon 02/18/08 04:08 PM
i have a plan get rid of age lol then whos gonna know

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Mon 02/18/08 04:10 PM
I wouldn't date I just grope

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 02/18/08 04:12 PM
its a little wird though sometimes ya must admit Not necessarily advocating it. Personally I could never date a woman 50+...with zero exception. But that doesn't mean that someone who does is immoral or dumb, that's all.

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Mon 02/18/08 04:12 PM
Okay, personally I don't give a BLANK who does what to whomever, but I have made my stance known. If you want kiddie sex, go for it! I don't...period! It becomes utterly senseless when others opinions are not respected, because they don't convey your wishes. We all have our rights and mine are as stated. Again thank you to all who understand.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 02/18/08 04:14 PM Edited by Fade2Black on Mon 02/18/08 04:15 PM
I'm pretty sure this has come up before but what is going on with super young guys hitting up on older women? While I don't mind being friends with any age group, I can't imagine 19 to 23 yr. olds hitting up on someone my age. The blatant sexual questions are out there. The baffling thing is right on my profile I state I have high morals. How many women are getting odd questions posed? Grosses me out knowing someone my son's age,is thinking about me that way. This is old news sweetie ... been dealing with it for over 3 years. It's a fad. And it's no longer taboo .. so the sky's the limit (ie, age ) ps .. I agree about kiddie sex but I HAVE dated and had substantial relationships (not just SEX) with guys a whole lot younger than me ... just sayin. But you should state it straight up in your profile if you don't want younger men hitting on you hon. Maybe you already do.

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 02/18/08 04:14 PM
hey hot stuff. whats shakin? J/K

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Mon 02/18/08 04:16 PM
Okay, personally I don't give a BLANK who does what to whomever, but I have made my stance known. If you want kiddie sex, go for it! I don't...period! It becomes utterly senseless when others opinions are not respected, because they don't convey your wishes. We all have our rights and mine are as stated. Again thank you to all who understand. I agree with Shaden; there is nothing wrong with joking, and making friendships with all people in JSH; however, some of these very young kids are very aggrrressive, and sexually splicit when they send IM's, or emails. JUst my thoughts....

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 02/18/08 04:16 PM
I understand that your saying its not right for you, but you didnt have to insult people with the wording of your question. Theres nothing morally wrong with two people being different ages and being in love. There isnt a religion on earth that says its wrong. Mirror you are wise you know that

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Mon 02/18/08 04:17 PM
Yeah, sometimes these threads can be like going to by a new car. You get out of your car and here come all the salespeople trying to get you to go with them. Except here its someone old enough to be your mom or almost and its not their car they wanna show you. Nothin wrong with having standards folks, you have yours. I have mine.

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 02/18/08 04:20 PM
I just added no Cougar searches to my profile. As though they can't read 'I have high morals.' Thanks Ladies, for understanding. Dating younger has nothing to do with high morals, it is a matter of preference. That will be offensive to some. Does not bother me cause I don't answer to anyone but myself and my morals are just fine.

OklaSixpack Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 67	Mon 02/18/08 04:21 PM
Ok, this is are real questions, not being a smart&&^. What kind of an age difference would be acceptable? Is it age difference that is the big problem, or the language they use, or both? Would a younger guy that is respectful be preferable over an older vulgar guy? I would (I am actually) dating a lady a few years older than me. We get along great, and we see no problem with it. As far as the language they must be using when they contact...that's just wrong, there is no excuse for it, and no there is need for that at any age. JMHO. Jim

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 02/18/08 04:23 PM Edited by soxfan94 on Mon 02/18/08 04:24 PM
Okay, personally I don't give a BLANK who does what to whomever, but I have made my stance known. If you want kiddie sex, go for it! I don't...period! It becomes utterly senseless when others opinions are not respected, because they don't convey your wishes. We all have our rights and mine are as stated. Again thank you to all who understand. I agree with Shaden; there is nothing wrong with joking, and making friendships with all people in JSH; however, some of these very young kids are very aggrrressive, and sexually splicit when they send IM's, or emails. JUst my thoughts.... OK the sexual explicitness is uncalled for either way but I hear all the time about "creepy old guys" sending the lewd emails to young girls and old girls alike. Now it's complaints about the young guys being explicit too. Can we just agree that all the lewd introductory emails are inappropriate and that they are sent by people of all ages?