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My very good friend of four year is bi-polar, seriously. She told me
that she was going to to stop taking her med, 'cause they made her feel bad. Too make a long story short, she (the other person) turned on me, baraging me with nasty phone calls and e-mail. I changed my phone# and she found my number and paid to find my # through the net. She has broken no law by threats, etc., so there's nothing I can do. Nusance calls are not a crime. I unplugged my phone. I can't stand to hear her voice which sounds like the devil in THE EXORIST. Another thing--Why do I have dates with guys my age and must older and never have a 2nd? Some of you know me, and know I like to joke and laugh, but I'm rarely personal or ugly. You've seen my pics. They're real and recent. I'm stable,not after anyone's money, and can actually cook and clean up(sometimes.) If you're respong, please be kind. I'm not in the mood for too much brutal truth. Love MM |
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Hi,you seem like a very nice lady:)I wish I knew what to tell you about
that lady,but it sounds as though you did all you thought to get her to let you be,so,....I wish you the best luck.And in the man department,try not to worry too much,you seem very sweet,keep your chin up.Prayer helps...and God has someone special for you,just be patient,it is a vertue:)GOD BLESS:)I hope you have a MERRY CHRISTMAS:) |
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sweety dont get mad at your friend it the sick ness talkin and it needs
to be helped |
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i'd try to have her ass committed so she has to take the meds.Once she's
back on them and she knows what she was like she'll hopefully realize she needs to stay on them. right now she doesn't know what she is doing or the hurt she is causing. as for the guys darling if they don't as you out again screw em their loss not yours |
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exactly with out the meds shes not her self
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Talk to the person she lives with - if that is the case. Or to her
doctor, and see if he can prescribe another medicine that may be less sickening than the one she is currently taking. Your friend definitely must take some sort of medication....as to your male friends.....can't really say anything.... |
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ok what now michele?
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hell i dont know but im havin too many conver.
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sushi, your friend needs to take her meds, that is a very complicated
issue,,,,,,and about the dates, you are a sweet lady, I could think of 2 reasons why this is happening, #1 your dating the wrong men !!!!!!!!!! #2 the men you dated just wanted to get in your panties, and when they met you, they find out that you are a beautifull person, and they just move on, that is just what I think... |
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Thanks, to all, I guess I just wanted to vent'cause I know what all ya'
all are saying. Friend has a husband, but he is the primo enabler--lives off her disability SS, and other retirement assets, so you can imagine what good it does to talk to him. I swear, re-reading my post, it sounds like I'm making all of this up--soap opera style. It'sust so hard to ignore. I want to stay out of it, but every time my phone rings,my stomach churns. And I just don't understand why a even a 70 year old widower doesn't like me. Hell, I don't want his money; I have enought problems dealing with my own. I just want to go fishing! BOOHOO I'll be better tomorrow. |
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Do you know her doctor, you might give the dr. the heads up.
Tell him what you told us, he will know what to do! |
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I agree with morena. On all points. Nothin else really to say.
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SUSHI, MY DEAR SWEET LADY, YOU ARE STILL CUTE!!!
AND YOU JUST NEED TO LOOK DEEPER IN THE MEN? AND FOR YOUR FRIEND, NO ONE CAN HELP HER,(BUT-HER), AND THE BEST THAT YOU CAN DO, IS TO CHANGE YOUR NUMBER, YET AGAIN... THIS TIME CHANGE IT TO AN UNPUBLISED NUMBER, AND THEY ARE HARD TO GET......IT IS A LITTLE MONEY, BUT HELL, YOUR HAVE TO GO ON MEDS SOON, IF YA DON'T LOSE HER??? SHE WILL JUST HAVE TO FIND (HER-SELF) OR GET COMMITED,LOL.. ITS NOT YOUR PROBLEM, AND YOU DID NOT CAUSE HER TO DO THIS!!! |
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I really love you guys. All thing will pass; they alway do.
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GOOD LUCK TO YOU SUSHI - STAY STRONG - WHERE IS MY VEGGIE SOUP?
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sushi I forgot the other day you can always block her number from
fcalling you with the phone company but that will not stop her from calling you outside of her home. |
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