honestly...he needs to understand that ur doing this to better urself...and reaffirm to him that u do love and care for him, but its something u have to do for ur self...maybe set up a few nights a week and just spend some quauity time with eachother..or a few hours every night. just the two of u..no kids. no school, no work..just the two of u...

i did that i took off of school just to be with him on valentines day and then again on friday for him and the kids and it got thrown back in my face friday night cause i had to study for my history test. we faught all night long until about 3:00 am i got about 2 hours sleep this morning and still had to go take my test today. this is like the third time its happen and i can take the stress anymore. Is not like hes home all the time he works in the rig so i deal with home, kids and school, and also working partime.