I can't tell you how many times people have told me they were "played by the best"

exactly who is 'the best' is there a freakin award for being the best player? and players, inform us of why ya do it? and how ya do it, so we'll be enlightened forever

share your "played" stories here, everyone's been played at some point...whether online, or in a relationship

a couple yrs ago, i started talkin to a guy online..i talked to him for almost a yr, daily, never met..but wow..the stories he told..

i was completely taken in by him, believed everything he told me as the gospel..

til he had a 'rock climbing accident' and didn't talk to me for a month. his 'son' got online one day, and informed me of this 'accident'. his X wife got online and told me of all the 'long term affects' of this 'accident'

very elaborite story..however..


i found out later that ALL of it was a lie...even where he lived...he went all out for this 'play' by making up profiles for his 'family' and X wife..

everything was a lie...literally everything

would never reveal my techniques

OMG!!! I wanna kill the guy!!!!

Not a big surprise.....they can say all they want to knowing that they will never meet....shooting out a lot of BS!!! Seems to be plenty of them......

Can't women be guilty of this too?

of course they can, and ARE

tell your stories folks..don't make me be the only fool sharing lol

I met a girl from another site in 2006. She had seen some things I had written, and asked me to proofread/edit some of her stuff -- she had gotten a new job with her local newspaper, and wanted some things brushed up before she submitted them.

I do a lot of this sort of thing, anyway, so it was no big deal. I fixed up 6 or 7 of her articles, over a period of about 3 weeks, and everything was fine.

Then, she asked me if I would mind just writing her articles for her. Uh, no, not unless I'm getting your paycheck, too, sweetie....

Nice try, though.

thanx lex for sharing...

i think i'd have told her off in a more colorful way..but i fully agree lol

well who wants to think they were played by the worst ??

not the point of this post at all

just share your story..that's why i labeled it the "therapy room"

r u prescribing meds 2

I dont feel as though i have gotten " played" I made the choice to either ignore signs and flags ,, noone can play me unless I give them permission too .. I have been hurt yeah just like anyone else but again my choice in how I feel about that .. I learned and loved and grew .. so no harm no foul...

uhh..NO lmao

Please don't kill me, I want to live.

wow. he carried that charade for a very long time!

You know what happens when THEY get involved, someone is getting probed..

oi.. ya know.. my past 2 ex's i met online. ... this latest one though. we met via myspace... i feared for the worse..but like you had stated in your story it was all golden.. she was... i was taken it all to heart.. **if you know how a true pieces works then you know we literally put our hearts on our sleeves**.. we spoke for 6 months.. she just wanted sex at first.. I talked her out of that and brought her down off that horse.. finally.. we talked for 6 months before deciding to meet up.. we meet up and chill and all, all fine and dandy. nothing changed cept a few things here and there. after the 3rd meeting I was actually ready to make this into a relationship and take it up the ladder one step. she wasn't ready. she emails me a sob story which pissed me off honestly because in my book, I don't know how many of you have had this happen but it's happened several times to me. the infamous..
You remind me of my ex in certain ways...
I lost it. Why oh why must you compare me to your past. that right there led me to believe she wasn't over him. she said she wasn't. so. i back off. we still email and talk but i lay off calling as often. next time we met up she was just all over me like white on rice.. i was in shock and kinda freaked out but.. we talked about it and she spoke up and said yeah i'm ready.. i really think i'm ready ot make this move with you.. do you want to.. i'm game..

we take it serious now..ok people.. never in a realtionship thats been somewhat of a long distance relationship had i ever seen a woman all of a sudden drop off the face of the earth.
Stopped emailing me
stopped calling me.
no more IM's. ... nothing.. once to twice a week. she'd email me with 'i'm working long hours' ok i bought it.. next couple days i'd email her asking how her weekend went "i can't remember i was so drunk, we went from bar to bar and all i remember is i wound up at a friends friends house and stayed the night..

w-t-f.. i'm mad by this point. My insecurtiy just went through the roof there.. so she says oh blah blah blah i'm still your woman and all..
negative.
no more mr nice guy. its one word sentences now, taking her words with the smallest grains of salt there is..


thus why i have really bought the saying "long distant relationships never work" and took it to the bank...

I can't seem to get through that i'm a nice guy, i'm not one who likes to sit around and wait on you..i'd like to spend some quality time with you at least once/twice every week/every other week.. how hard is that?...

oi.. that was a lot coming off my chest.. if you read all that then kudos my friend

Lexie I am kinda backed up on my income tax provision and foreign tax returns; I was hoping that you could crank them out for me. That's a good boy.