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Topic: old fashioned
Lonewolf1975's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:06 AM

i agree with what your saying...but maybe when some men change there ideals..maybe women wont feel pressured into thinking sex is the answer..after all its still ok for men to sleep around and they arnt assumed to be easy...but women still in this day and age get the titles they dont deserve...if that makes sense


Their are some men out there that DON'T sleep around. grumble

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:11 AM


i agree with what your saying...but maybe when some men change there ideals..maybe women wont feel pressured into thinking sex is the answer..after all its still ok for men to sleep around and they arnt assumed to be easy...but women still in this day and age get the titles they dont deserve...if that makes sense


Their are some men out there that DON'T sleep around. grumble
thats why i said SOME if you read it properly

SonOfJack's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:16 AM



i agree with what your saying...but maybe when some men change there ideals..maybe women wont feel pressured into thinking sex is the answer..after all its still ok for men to sleep around and they arnt assumed to be easy...but women still in this day and age get the titles they dont deserve...if that makes sense


Their are some men out there that DON'T sleep around. grumble
thats why i said SOME if you read it properly


is that really true, men is the cause of womens actions? I thought each person was responsible for themselves and their neihbor. so your saying women throw out their own morals and ethics to please men?
that's sad, really sad on so many levels, it's if though you have freedom but you still conform. Out of what though, fear, neglection? I guess I just don't understand.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:18 AM




i agree with what your saying...but maybe when some men change there ideals..maybe women wont feel pressured into thinking sex is the answer..after all its still ok for men to sleep around and they arnt assumed to be easy...but women still in this day and age get the titles they dont deserve...if that makes sense


Their are some men out there that DON'T sleep around. grumble
thats why i said SOME if you read it properly


is that really true, men is the cause of womens actions? I thought each person was responsible for themselves and their neihbor. so your saying women throw out their own morals and ethics to please men?
that's sad, really sad on so many levels, it's if though you have freedom but you still conform. Out of what though, fear, neglection? I guess I just don't understand.


Most want to be accepted. loved. held. and if throwing out morals and ethics to please a man will do it..then thats what they'll do... but not all women are like that.

SonOfJack's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:21 AM





i agree with what your saying...but maybe when some men change there ideals..maybe women wont feel pressured into thinking sex is the answer..after all its still ok for men to sleep around and they arnt assumed to be easy...but women still in this day and age get the titles they dont deserve...if that makes sense


Their are some men out there that DON'T sleep around. grumble
thats why i said SOME if you read it properly


is that really true, men is the cause of womens actions? I thought each person was responsible for themselves and their neihbor. so your saying women throw out their own morals and ethics to please men?
that's sad, really sad on so many levels, it's if though you have freedom but you still conform. Out of what though, fear, neglection? I guess I just don't understand.


Most want to be accepted. loved. held. and if throwing out morals and ethics to please a man will do it..then thats what they'll do... but not all women are like that.


that seriously makes me want to throw up, your morals, ethics, soul is who you are. so if what you are saying is true, most women dont know who they are, they become who man wants?

Brenda_Darling's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:23 AM
MOst not all...

I dont change who i am for ANYONE...I'm a take me or leave me kind of person...so are a bunch of my friends


but at the same time.. i know girls who'll jump when a guy says jump

lonelyshorty's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:23 AM






i agree with what your saying...but maybe when some men change there ideals..maybe women wont feel pressured into thinking sex is the answer..after all its still ok for men to sleep around and they arnt assumed to be easy...but women still in this day and age get the titles they dont deserve...if that makes sense


Their are some men out there that DON'T sleep around. grumble
thats why i said SOME if you read it properly


is that really true, men is the cause of womens actions? I thought each person was responsible for themselves and their neihbor. so your saying women throw out their own morals and ethics to please men?
that's sad, really sad on so many levels, it's if though you have freedom but you still conform. Out of what though, fear, neglection? I guess I just don't understand.


Most want to be accepted. loved. held. and if throwing out morals and ethics to please a man will do it..then thats what they'll do... but not all women are like that.


that seriously makes me want to throw up, your morals, ethics, soul is who you are. so if what you are saying is true, most women dont know who they are, they become who man wants?


I know exactly who I am and I want. I will not sleep with a guy on the first date and not until I feel that I love him. So hes gonna have to deal with it. I will not change who I am or my morals or what I love to do for anyone

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:24 AM
no what im saying is that if women choose the option of having sex on a regular basis ...like SOME men choose that option...they are are not treated the same as men ..ie a pat on the back and well done son..i personally prefer a caring loving relationship...why cant women be respected for there choices and it not be assumned they are easy

SonOfJack's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:28 AM

no what im saying is that if women choose the option of having sex on a regular basis ...like SOME men choose that option...they are are not treated the same as men ..ie a pat on the back and well done son..i personally prefer a caring loving relationship...why cant women be respected for there choices and it not be assumned they are easy


I never tryed to say anyone was easy, I was just curious as to what happened to the old fashioned way, I guess thats why its called old, because well it is.
In my life I can honestly say I have never called a woman any negative names. I respect everyones choices, I just like to learn why they make them.

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:31 AM


no what im saying is that if women choose the option of having sex on a regular basis ...like SOME men choose that option...they are are not treated the same as men ..ie a pat on the back and well done son..i personally prefer a caring loving relationship...why cant women be respected for there choices and it not be assumned they are easy


I never tryed to say anyone was easy, I was just curious as to what happened to the old fashioned way, I guess thats why its called old, because well it is.
In my life I can honestly say I have never called a woman any negative names. I respect everyones choices, I just like to learn why they make them.
yep agree im the same...was brought up that way too in a caring loving family...but im open minded to all aspects and choices people make...good post hun:smile:

briancarr's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:41 AM
Edited by briancarr on Tue 02/12/08 12:55 AM
Why do we keep tring to lump everyone in the same category. If the person, or persons dont fit what your looking for, move on. Finding someone to spend your life with is a journey, that sometimes leeds to a dead end. Why harp on these man made morals, and values. If you want to Bang, then Bang away with a person that wants that. If you want someone for the long haul then go that route. Things arnt always in front of your face, and sometime it has to find you. Everyone wants everything now, or just right. Half the time when you get what you think you want, you dont know what it takes to keep it, or dont want to do the work.

SonOfJack's photo
Tue 02/12/08 12:49 AM

Why do we keep tring to lump everyone in the same category. If the person, or persons dont fit what your looking for, move on. Finding someone to spend your life with is a journey, that sometimes leeds to a dead end. Why harp on these man made morals, and values. If you want to Bang, then Bang away with a person that wants that. If you want someone for the long haul then go that route. Things arnt always in front of your face, and sometime it has to find you. Everyone wants everything now, or just right. Have the time when you get what you think you want, you dont know what it takes to keep it, or dont want to do the work.


thank you for summing up the entire thread, well done. my job is done, one person has learned:wink:

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