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Topic: he/she is just not that into you...
madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Mon 02/11/08 01:36 PM
oh mine still had sex everyday in fact he never even broke up with me exactly...so what is the point? the sex is there but thats all it is, no touch, no kiss, no foreplay, just in and out, get on, get off, get up....blah...nothing more. as if you are a penis receptical lol

jwell Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 238	Mon 02/11/08 01:38 PM
oh mine still had sex everyday in fact he never even broke up with me exactly...so what is the point? the sex is there but thats all it is, no touch, no kiss, no foreplay, just in and out, get on, get off, get up....blah...nothing more. as if you are a penis receptical lol fro that point of view i would say y'll are just sex "buddies" you dont want that right?

Rose41 Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 940	Mon 02/11/08 01:40 PM
If their calls get less and less. They seem to always be busy doing something else. They quiet calling you by pet names. ( baby, sweety, honey ect...) They no longer include you in there plans. They seem to ignore you when you mention getting together. When you touch them they seem to pull away. Not into the cuddling anymore. couldnt have stated it better myself

suzyQ41 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1081	Mon 02/11/08 01:40 PM
like someone you were or are currently dating, they still go thru the motions of the relationship but you feel its not there...are there signs? There is no pitter patter of your heart, no heat when he holds your hand, and no moaning when you.......(you can guess the rest) xxxxooo to you Madam

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Mon 02/11/08 01:40 PM
oh mine still had sex everyday in fact he never even broke up with me exactly...so what is the point? the sex is there but thats all it is, no touch, no kiss, no foreplay, just in and out, get on, get off, get up....blah...nothing more. as if you are a penis receptical lol fro that point of view i would say y'll are just sex "buddies" you dont want that right? hell even the sex isnt good at that rate if there is no emotion, kissing, touching,etc...just stick it in, do his business and jump up lmao...uhmmmmmm no thanks!

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Mon 02/11/08 01:41 PM
like someone you were or are currently dating, they still go thru the motions of the relationship but you feel its not there...are there signs? There is no pitter patter of your heart, no heat when he holds your hand, and no moaning when you.......(you can guess the rest) xxxxooo to you Madam xoxoxoo to you too babe!

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 02/11/08 01:41 PM
no we lived together but he has a gf thinging he was just sleeping on the couch deal oh mine still had sex everyday in fact he never even broke up with me exactly...so what is the point? the sex is there but thats all it is, no touch, no kiss, no foreplay, just in and out, get on, get off, get up....blah...nothing more. as if you are a penis receptical lol fro that point of view i would say y'll are just sex "buddies" you dont want that right?

Suzanne20 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9261	Mon 02/11/08 01:44 PM
changes in attitude/affection, sleeping in seperate rooms, distancing oneself in general

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 02/11/08 01:46 PM
how about running up your phone bill never get a man a cell phone ladies

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Mon 02/11/08 01:47 PM
how about they talk down to you as if they are superior

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Mon 02/11/08 01:49 PM
(((((((((((PartnerInCrime))))))))))) Do I need to get the Big Wheel and run over some toes???

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Mon 02/11/08 01:50 PM
(((((((((((PartnerInCrime))))))))))) Do I need to get the Big Wheel and run over some toes??? ((((partner in crime)))) more like a mac truck lmao doh

LLH5 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 553	Mon 02/11/08 02:17 PM
It's pretty easy knowing when they're not into you. Excuses, excuses and more excuses. You're not priority, you're an after-thought. Easy to see. Not so easy to accept.

RaindropsNMoonlight Joined Mon 02/11/08 Posts: 56	Mon 02/11/08 02:28 PM
Ive never been down this road but I have a feeling that anyone,male oe female with 1/2 a brain, surely to gosh will know.The heart dont lie! I think I would but then Im smart that way!

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Mon 02/11/08 05:04 PM Edited by SharpShooter10 on Mon 02/11/08 05:16 PM
1. They drive around town with their own mattress tied to the car. 2. Lots of dead batteries laying around the house from "BOB" 3. Magnum size condoms in the trash, under the bed, and yuck, in the dogs mouth 4. A plate on the table with an unopened can of pork and beans 5. Haven't seen em in a while, 6. black pubic hair in the bed, she is blond and your hair is brown, 7. She likes to talk and scream during sex, and calls you from the motel everyl time 8. She calls from jail, wanting to be bailed out, something about solicitation of sex for drugs, (but it's just a misunderstanding, lol, yeah right) 9. she loves you but is not "in love with you"