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Have you met in person yet?
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you meet someone online who is long distace, and they cannot move and you cannot move, but you spend hours upon hours on the phone, send e-mails ect ect.... but in the end there is no future in the relationship, what do you do? Do you stay friends knowing there is more to the story, and possible hold yourself back from finding someone else? Do you cut ties guickly, and hurt, but know that "this too shall pass"? Do you continue to talk knowing that gloom and doom are eminent? Stay friends. Although neither will be able to move, you can still plan a visit or 2. There should always be room in someone'slife for another friend. 
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you meet someone online who is long distace, and they cannot move and you cannot move, but you spend hours upon hours on the phone, send e-mails ect ect.... but in the end there is no future in the relationship, what do you do? Do you stay friends knowing there is more to the story, and possible hold yourself back from finding someone else? Do you cut ties guickly, and hurt, but know that "this too shall pass"? Do you continue to talk knowing that gloom and doom are eminent? Stay friends. Although neither will be able to move, you can still plan a visit or 2. There should always be room in someone'slife for another friend.
between the friends I have and the full time job of stalking you...I don't have time for one more friend. 
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you meet someone online who is long distace, and they cannot move and you cannot move, but you spend hours upon hours on the phone, send e-mails ect ect.... but in the end there is no future in the relationship, what do you do? Do you stay friends knowing there is more to the story, and possible hold yourself back from finding someone else? Do you cut ties guickly, and hurt, but know that "this too shall pass"? Do you continue to talk knowing that gloom and doom are eminent? Stay friends. Although neither will be able to move, you can still plan a visit or 2. There should always be room in someone'slife for another friend.
between the friends I have and the full time job of stalking you...I don't have time for one more friend.
 you haven't been doing a good job stalking me
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you haven't been doing a good job stalking me
I know I know...now I have more time for it...see how this is win/win for you....
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you meet someone online who is long distace, and they cannot move and you cannot move, but you spend hours upon hours on the phone, send e-mails ect ect.... but in the end there is no future in the relationship, what do you do? Do you stay friends knowing there is more to the story, and possible hold yourself back from finding someone else? Do you cut ties guickly, and hurt, but know that "this too shall pass"? Do you continue to talk knowing that gloom and doom are eminent? |
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She lives 5 states away, her kids are there with her. My kid is here with me. Meeting is an option, but a slew of questions and tough choices lay out on the horizon. However, in no way, can I ever really see NOT talking to her ever again just because distance might keep us apart for now. But that's just me...<shrug> Good luck, Lily. (=
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you meet someone online who is long distace, and they cannot move and you cannot move, but you spend hours upon hours on the phone, send e-mails ect ect.... but in the end there is no future in the relationship, what do you do? Do you stay friends knowing there is more to the story, and possible hold yourself back from finding someone else? Do you cut ties guickly, and hurt, but know that "this too shall pass"? Do you continue to talk knowing that gloom and doom are eminent? I would maybe stay OL friends, but continue with my RL, and finding someone to have a real relationship with. I'd still enjoy talking online or on the phone with them though, but wouldn't hold back on finding someone. |
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you meet someone online who is long distace, and they cannot move and you cannot move, but you spend hours upon hours on the phone, send e-mails ect ect.... but in the end there is no future in the relationship, what do you do? Do you stay friends knowing there is more to the story, and possible hold yourself back from finding someone else? Do you cut ties guickly, and hurt, but know that "this too shall pass"? Do you continue to talk knowing that gloom and doom are eminent? wow if you had some I might try.... |
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move and get married and see what happens
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Drop 10 and punt
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move and get married and see what happens Let me get right on that.... I'm so pro-marriage. |
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me too lol cant wait to do it agine
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move and get married and see what happens Let me get right on that.... I'm so pro-marriage. demand a ring from him! |
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It's the chuck and chris show...ya, I can't wait to be married again...I'm so good at it too.... just ask my ex.
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i would assume stay friends...but who knows
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Babe, once he meets you in person he is gonna be so crazy about you that he will be willing to switch careers just to be with you.
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you meet someone online who is long distace, and they cannot move and you cannot move, but you spend hours upon hours on the phone, send e-mails ect ect.... but in the end there is no future in the relationship, what do you do? Do you stay friends knowing there is more to the story, and possible hold yourself back from finding someone else? Do you cut ties guickly, and hurt, but know that "this too shall pass"? Do you continue to talk knowing that gloom and doom are eminent? i've been in the same situation, long distance, and unable to move, and the same with her, so eventually emails and calls got farther apart and we lost track of each other. my advice is to let the situation fix itself, it always does, but in the end no one really, hurt anyone, it takes the responsibility off both of you, cause honestly, what can you do, nothing, so the best thing to do is not make an enemy if you can avoid it |
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I pretty much did that for about 3 years.. finally realized that he wasn't going to move here because he couldn't stand to live without me..
seeing each other a few times a year if possible isn't enough to maintain a *healthy* relationship.. I'd just stay friends if possible! |
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