Topic: You're dating someone you really like
Peccy's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:41 PM
but you find out their room mate is the same sex as you. What's the next move?

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:42 PM
:cry:

trying_to_fly's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:42 PM
I don't see a problem with it at all, as long as they're up front with you that nothings going on.....before you have to ask yourself preferably......That's my opinion...

fastlinnie's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:42 PM
can i get a little of the stuff ya smokin

Suzanne20's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:43 PM
That's where trust comes in. If they have already told you that there is nothing going on between the two of them, you have to decide if you trust them enough.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:43 PM
Kill the roomate???

bigsmile

laugh laugh laugh

Sorry i couldn't help it

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:43 PM
pack the ***** up and send her on her way!!! LOLOL

soxfan94's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:43 PM
Edited by soxfan94 on Sun 02/10/08 08:44 PM
You know what they say...you've gotta kick his a$$ and make him your b1tch to show him who's boss. laugh

Seriously, though, it's not a big deal IMO so long as she is upfront and clear that they are just friends. If there was any sort of history between the two of them, then that's no good.

Kaseynej's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:45 PM
I don't see what the big deal is. I have plenty of male friends I could be roommates with. And it would never go any further. Most times when men and women are roommates, they state that it can never go any further. Or they've already dated and know it won't work. So, I wouldn't care.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:47 PM
It's all about trust

If there's trust

No problem

yvory's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:47 PM
Edited by yvory on Sun 02/10/08 08:49 PM
my housemate is a guy and we've been living for 3 years now and non of the guys I dated have a problem with that. and if there is, the guy i date will just have to make his exit anytime :)

i love my housemate, as a friend and like a brother.

my housemate's girlfriend is one my closest friends and she's over on weekends. we all get along fine :)

no photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:51 PM
I had a male room mate for a few years. It was great, he is like a brother to me. I have my own place now, we get together a few times a month for dinner.