Topic: for woman,and hope men will also write in here
catchme_ifucan's photo
Sun 02/10/08 06:54 PM
I will say most of the guys I've seen on this site are good guys.

All the guys I've gotten to know & be friends with are all sweet caring guys. you get to know the inside of people this way.

:heart: & I love all you Guys! happy

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 02/10/08 07:01 PM
This is for all the women!

Beautiful things

A long stem red rose,
A sunrise at dawn,
A baby's small toes,
A mother deer and her fawn,
A mother robin as she sings,
As she plays in the morning dew,
These are all beautiful things,
Only not as much as you!


TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/10/08 07:02 PM

oc, shadow, and jtitol, and poetry, thanks so much guys. it makes me feel better to know that there are still good guys out there....after coming out of a bad emotionally abusive marriage, i was pretty darn bitter and wondered if all guys were like my jerk ex..i am finding out rather quickly that not all guys are like him! thanks guys for bringing a smile to my face.
Beccaflowerforyou


Your very welcome beccalee :smile: it's nice to be on this site and see that there are women that can see that...

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 02/10/08 07:02 PM
thank's (catch) flowerforyou

catchme_ifucan's photo
Sun 02/10/08 07:08 PM
:wink:


happy Thanks Poetry, That's Beautiful! flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 02/10/08 07:09 PM
(((Catch)))flowerforyou

beccalee1980's photo
Sun 02/10/08 07:10 PM
Edited by beccalee1980 on Sun 02/10/08 07:11 PM
really gotta give props to you guys. it really is encouraging to read things like this :) that's beautiful btw poetry :)
Becca

txmomof2's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:14 PM


I wish more men would get there heads right


There is an up side to all things OC.. The upside to this is they have a benchmark to compare the rest of us to. So.. maybe you might be careful what ya wish for.

you are right there
it is hard for me not to think that all guys are like my ex

txmomof2's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:15 PM






thanks for speaking up. i was in a marriage where i was abused mentally and emotionally. and it has taken me several years to get back to the girl i was before.


woman dont get the respect nore credit that u all truly deserve,I know of a few woman whom were abused in which I had both men put in jail over it,thats something I wont stand for and never will.I am glad to hear u was able to get over that I do know thats not something easy to forget nore get overflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

well he never physically abused me because he knew he would be dead if he ever did that. but i still have moments when i don't feel like i amount to much but it is a slow process


that last guy I seen who did this went to jail,but went to jail with a busted knee.I hear u even if it was physical it still done damage,thats what I hate the most is they bring woman down to nothing,to where they feel they can do nothing more,or get into any thing better so they stay,and it kills me to see this

you become empty and depressed. nothing you do can match up to anybody. not just him. you become afraid of disappointing everyone. you become someone you were never meant to be.


yes and its truly sad that this has to happen,and it does take a long time,and sometimes u just cant get over this feeling,when u have been tore down.

well i am working on it
and i think if i can find that one special man it will help

no photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:17 PM
Don't feel bad Tx, I have the same problem.

txmomof2's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:18 PM

Don't feel bad Tx, I have the same problem.

which one is that

no photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:20 PM
Thinking ex'es are the normal. My ex wife is a piece of work.

txmomof2's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:22 PM
ahhh ok
yea it is hard not to think that
everytime i look at a possible i have to remind myself that they are not he

Foliel's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:23 PM
i do agree that women need to be treated more respectfully, but I would like to point out that it is not always the woman being treated badly. My ex-girlfriend treated me like dirt, she hit me, bad mouthed me to her friends, tried to get me to shoplift for her, and thats only some of how she treated me. I did everything I could to keep her happy but everytime we got together, I ended up feeling worse than the last time.

Sadly in my town it seems alot of the men get treated worse than the women do. It is not right either way, there should always be respect on both sides.

Althoug I don't see a problem with asking your spouse once in awhile to get you something, as long as its not an everyday thing and they arent busy.

to all the women out there that aren't treated with respect:

3 cheers for you :) you work hard and deserve the respect you give others


txmomof2's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:25 PM

i do agree that women need to be treated more respectfully, but I would like to point out that it is not always the woman being treated badly. My ex-girlfriend treated me like dirt, she hit me, bad mouthed me to her friends, tried to get me to shoplift for her, and thats only some of how she treated me. I did everything I could to keep her happy but everytime we got together, I ended up feeling worse than the last time.

Sadly in my town it seems alot of the men get treated worse than the women do. It is not right either way, there should always be respect on both sides.

Althoug I don't see a problem with asking your spouse once in awhile to get you something, as long as its not an everyday thing and they arent busy.

to all the women out there that aren't treated with respect:

3 cheers for you :) you work hard and deserve the respect you give others



i have seen that many times too

LAMom's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:31 PM
(((((( Oc ))))))))))

You Rawkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk flowerforyou flowerforyou

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:32 PM
Well ellgee, people can say what they want and I think this whole spiel comes off a little suck a--.
All I want to know is why the hottest looking women are always with the a--holes that treat them like crap?
I've seen it all my life. Do women think that somehow being rude, unbathed, and obnoxious, is manly or something?

txmomof2's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:34 PM

Well ellgee, people can say what they want and I think this whole spiel comes off a little suck a--.
All I want to know is why the hottest looking women are always with the a--holes that treat them like crap?
I've seen it all my life. Do women think that somehow being rude, unbathed, and obnoxious, is manly or something?


i feel that somehow we have become accustomed to it and we think that that is the norm

tonylee52's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:37 PM
my ex ran off with a state trooper. i don't stop when they flash their lights at me. i am afraid he is bringing her back.laugh

MariJane63's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:38 PM


((oc)) flowerforyou