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Italy0219's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:32 PM
If a girl puts out on the second date, does the guy loose respect for her even if they hit it off and he ends up liking her alot? or does that ruin things for him??? just wondering///

soxfan94's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:33 PM
No respect lost if it was a mutual thing. If she was totally whoring herself out, then maybe lol.

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Sun 02/10/08 01:34 PM
that would depend on if there was any alcohol involved.

neversleeps's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:35 PM

No respect lost if it was a mutual thing. If she was totally whoring herself out, then maybe lol.


that totally explains why you didn't call me again.
sorry about that.

Rose41's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:36 PM
oh Italy feels like being nasty LOL naww go for it girl were in the yrs of 2000 everything is doable lol if thats a wordhappy

Italy0219's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:37 PM
Rose you are funny yes you are...I really don't care, just asking what people think,

Rose41's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:38 PM
happy happy

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Sun 02/10/08 01:38 PM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Sun 02/10/08 01:40 PM

If a girl puts out on the second date, does the guy loose respect for her even if they hit it off and he ends up liking her alot? or does that ruin things for him??? just wondering///



Well, I think when you get to a certain age, you realize that something like "sex" is just a HUGE part of everyone's life.

Sex is like air...the only time you think about it, is when you aren't getting any. And when you're not gettin any, thats ALL you think about. noway :tongue: laugh

So I think its fair to say, if its two consenting adults and you're not "bed hopping" "pimpin" or "whoring", then go have fun.

Very very FEW would "lose respect"..the guys that just take off after, it just means thats all they wanted. Has nothing to do with "respect".

flowerforyou

Italy0219's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:40 PM
yep, that is what i thought before i posted that stupid question...

jtip1977's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:41 PM
Lose respect because she made me wait until the second date?????huh

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Sun 02/10/08 01:42 PM

yep, that is what i thought before i posted that stupid question...


Its not a "stupid" question at all! Some use to try to use that arguement.."they will lose respect for you".

Well hell, if the guy had any "respect" then he shouldn't "push" anything on the woman she doesn't want.

So its actually a good question. bigsmile flowerforyou

briancarr's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:44 PM
The first date counts the most. Give just enough on the first date in conversation, and physical to set up the second date. Put out on the second date after a great first date, i not going antwhere.

hikerchick's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:49 PM
did you lose respect for him because he put out for you?

itsmetina's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:51 PM
i think it makes him thinks the girl is easy he may take advantage of it but doesnt think shes a keeper the longer u make him wait the more lucky he thinks he is but its all a chance men play so many games

hikerchick's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:53 PM
why does everyone treat sex like it's something that women do for men? Last I checked, it was something fun that adults did together when they felt like it. I thought it was more of a mutual thing

briancarr's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:53 PM

i think it makes him thinks the girl is easy he may take advantage of it but doesnt think shes a keeper the longer u make him wait the more lucky he thinks he is but its all a chance men play so many games
The longer you make him wait, the more time you give the other woman

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:53 PM
Edited by Engraven_Image on Sun 02/10/08 01:53 PM

i think it makes him thinks the girl is easy he may take advantage of it but doesnt think shes a keeper the longer u make him wait the more lucky he thinks he is but its all a chance men play so many games
Shoot I stay with the girl even if she puts out before the first date! Usually thats what happens!laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 02/10/08 01:55 PM

did you lose respect for him because he put out for you?



Hmmmmmm..so that's my problem!!!???? noway noway bigsmile laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

briancarr's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:56 PM


i think it makes him thinks the girl is easy he may take advantage of it but doesnt think shes a keeper the longer u make him wait the more lucky he thinks he is but its all a chance men play so many games
Shoot I stay with the girl even if she puts out before the first date! Usually thats what happens!laugh laugh laugh
Because your so hot. Dont worry im not hating on you studglasses glasses glasses smokin smokin

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 02/10/08 01:58 PM



i think it makes him thinks the girl is easy he may take advantage of it but doesnt think shes a keeper the longer u make him wait the more lucky he thinks he is but its all a chance men play so many games
Shoot I stay with the girl even if she puts out before the first date! Usually thats what happens!laugh laugh laugh
Because your so hot. Dont worry im not hating on you studglasses glasses glasses smokin smokin
huh Nah. just cuz I usually put out before the first date!laugh

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