well brian I can repect your perspective and decision.. we just had a similar discussion last week at church and I won't touch on the religious aspects of any of it .. but for me life did not give me any choice but to step up and raise my daughter alone...So I have done what I had to do to make sure that I could be the best mother/father that I could be.. I work, I own my own business so I can schedule everything around my family and at this point in my life that is her...I guess I don't know what you mean and am blindly trying to guess .. anywho I hope you find happiness no matter what is going on in your life ..

Well you keep score, and get back to me

Of course..if you want a "little" relationship!

In a relationship I give EVERYTHING too it I can...because I WANT to..its not "work" for me.

But that's just me..an over-achiever and I "swing for the fence at every at bat".

and at the end of the day whats the score. I bet o-o

brian - I cooked sunday dinner so if you were hungry you should have come over ..

LOL..we don't keep score. Old saying I was raised with... "if you keep score..someone always ends up losing".

When i was young, Sunday was the most peaceful day of the week in my house. I could wait for Sunday, because i knew they wouldnt fight. I miss Sundays. I even got my oldest Daughter to Make Sundays special for her, and her husband. Thanks for the offer.

Everyone, welcome OJ Simpson to the forums! LOL! J?K!