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ok I have meet someone on JSH an I really like him alot, but I still am in love with my ex an cant seem to get over him, I wanna get over him an try things with the other guy, I dont think its fair to the other guy if my ex still has my feelings.. I dont know what to do
 plz help..thank you
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I am far from an expert in this field, but I think that it is something that is just going to take time to do. there are no real methodes to getting over someone, it just has to happen on its own.
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ok I have meet someone on JSH an I really like him alot, but I still am in love with my ex an cant seem to get over him, I wanna get over him an try things with the other guy, I dont think its fair to the other guy if my ex still has my feelings.. I dont know what to do plz help..thank you
It varies from person to person how to get over someone. Some people say that going with someone new is the way to get over an ex, but personally I agree with you that it's not fair to the new guy if you know you still have strong feelings for your ex. I think it comes down to this: are your feelings for your ex really strong and because you still love him? Or are they just because you want to be with someone, and he was the last one? If you think you may still love him, I'd nix any new guys until you deal with that. If it's just wanting to be with someone, then go for the new guy. |
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i think that your fellings for your x is normal but you need to move on. and the best way is to see new people. it takes time best of luck
 
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And drink lots of alcohol. St. Pauli Girl often makes a REALLY good companion in those kinds of circumstances.
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They say that it takes 1/2 the amount of time to get over a relationship, as the relationship lasted. so if you were together 8 years, it would take you 4 years to get over it. Make sense? I only have 6 years of suffering left.
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I hate being alone, it sucks
 I do wanna be with him alot
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exes are exes for a reason.....try to take some alone time, you don't NEED someone else to complete you. Learn to like yourself first, then the hook up with whoever won't be as complex.
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Sounds like your not ready to date, you need time to get over your ex & if your truly not over your ex it's unfair to yhe next person.
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They say that it takes 1/2 the amount of time to get over a relationship, as the relationship lasted. so if you were together 8 years, it would take you 4 years to get over it. Make sense? I only have 6 years of suffering left.
aww Im sry!! we were only together 7 months or so.. |
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everytime u get the feeling of all mooshy..put tabasco saunce on ur tongue....yuck..ouch...
Just takes time....sometimes u can still love someone and still move on..I have.... best of luck to u... 
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They say that it takes 1/2 the amount of time to get over a relationship, as the relationship lasted. so if you were together 8 years, it would take you 4 years to get over it. Make sense? I only have 6 years of suffering left.
aww Im sry!! we were only together 7 months or so.. 7 months......puppy love |
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aww thank you *hug*
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They say that it takes 1/2 the amount of time to get over a relationship, as the relationship lasted. so if you were together 8 years, it would take you 4 years to get over it. Make sense? I only have 6 years of suffering left.
I don't like that
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lol yea it was but I moved in to soon an thats were we went wrong.. plus he had 2 lil girls I had to watch when he was at work...
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LOL!!! Good one!!!
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Edited by
Monier
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Sat 02/09/08 04:42 PM
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Do you really like the new guy alot, or do you just like being with someone? You're right that it's unfair to the new guy to have not moved on with the break up with your ex. It's downright evil to start a relationship with another person while you're still hung up on another.
Talk it out with the new guy, he'll understand, if he does'nt well tough, you're just looking out for him. Take care of your own baggage before you become somebody else's. |
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yea i know not a smart move
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Sounds like your not ready to date, you need time to get over your ex & if your truly not over your ex it's unfair to yhe next person. 
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Do you really like the new guy alot, or do you just like being with someone? You're right that's it's unfair to the new guy to have not moved on with the break up with your ex. It's downright evil to start a relationship with another person while you're still hung up on another. Talk it out with the new guy, he'll understand, if he does'nt well tough, you're just looking out for him. Take care of your own baggage before you become somebody else's. wow thats really insightful.. thank you soo much, I know I like him alot, I dont have to be in a relationship just sucks being alone lol. I will try to talk to him about it.. ty
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