Topic: Whats wrong with me!?
yanksfan431's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:23 AM
thanks everyone for your time and advice. I really appreciate all of it. Being picky may be a problem, but people on this website dont even respond. It just gets annoying after a bit.

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:26 AM
You need to work the Holidays, You have Mistletoe at Christmas, A kiss at Midnight on New Years Eve....

Or get a bunch of friends together and play spin the bottle

Teresita1959's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:28 AM
Don't fret... my second son (who is gorgeous did not kiss a girl til he was a junior in college)... He found that pretty funny. Not to worry. Before you know it, it will happen.

yanksfan431's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:29 AM
hmm maybe....but i dont want my first kissed to be forced...i would rather have it because she actually likes me, rather than "oh darn i have to kiss that guy who cant even find a girl on the internet!" :smile:

hikerchick's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:30 AM

hmm maybe....but i dont want my first kissed to be forced...i would rather have it because she actually likes me, rather than "oh darn i have to kiss that guy who cant even find a girl on the internet!" :smile:


I feel your pain, bro.smokin

no photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:30 AM
First you must practice......on random objects........such as stuffed animals........pillows and your arm!!! Oh wait!! the arm was the hickey!!! Ok just stuffed animals and pillows for now!!smooched laugh smooched laugh

no photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:30 AM


if your trying for the really pretty girls then maybe you shouldnt be so picky(at first at least)try some less attractive girls, then when you got some game,move on up.

maybe nice? girls, because pretty girls aren't neccessarily moving up. don't mistake kindness for weakness,, visually pretty girls are not often nice
im not saying anything about personality,just that you shouldnt have high standards of who you want to date,lower your standards and start from there

yanksfan431's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:32 AM
thanks all...i thought i was alone in this club...but i guess im not :)

Wonderbread's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:33 AM

hmm maybe....but i dont want my first kissed to be forced...i would rather have it because she actually likes me, rather than "oh darn i have to kiss that guy who cant even find a girl on the internet!" :smile:

you just figured out your own problem buddy. Don't let them know your on the internet. Cause I know your not here to meet girls. Its friendship and advice you seek. And you came to the right place. You'll find what your looking for when your not looking for it. Just be patient. And if it makes you feel any better, I was a virgin till i was 22, so just remember, good things come to those who wait, and then those who wait come!

no photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:33 AM
Edited by Wolf19 on Sat 02/09/08 12:34 AM
well sometimes you gotta take matters into your own hands,take a girl out,try to get her to have a really good time and during that time,just go in for a quick peck on the cheek or lips(either one).if she smiles,then go in for another.Always works for me.

hikerchick's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:36 AM


hmm maybe....but i dont want my first kissed to be forced...i would rather have it because she actually likes me, rather than "oh darn i have to kiss that guy who cant even find a girl on the internet!" :smile:

you just figured out your own problem buddy. Don't let them know your on the internet. Cause I know your not here to meet girls. Its friendship and advice you seek. And you came to the right place. You'll find what your looking for when your not looking for it. Just be patient. And if it makes you feel any better, I was a virgin till i was 22, so just remember, good things come to those who wait, and then those who wait come!


see? and now he is a world-reknowned expert! It can happen to you!!

yanksfan431's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:41 AM
ugh its hard to take a girl out when they say no haha

curios789's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:42 AM
Wooh, buddy, join the club...I get rejected continuously...never had a steady girlfriend. Few dates, that's it. Still got my V-card, too. Don't tell anyone! embarassed

Wonderbread's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:45 AM

ugh its hard to take a girl out when they say no haha

So move on? I'm sure you don't live in a town where everyone is related some how, and the new family only has one daughter and she's turned you down.
And if you do, i ment no offense!
Goto the mall.
GIRLS HANG OUT AT THE MALL.

yanksfan431's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:45 AM
maybe you all are right. i guess id rather seek advice here than dates and such. il get a date by the time im 40 drinker !

curios789's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:45 AM


ugh its hard to take a girl out when they say no haha

So move on? I'm sure you don't live in a town where everyone is related some how, and the new family only has one daughter and she's turned you down.
And if you do, i ment no offense!
Goto the mall.
GIRLS HANG OUT AT THE MALL.

Girls who hang out the mall want stuff, and stuff cost money, bro. laugh laugh

yanksfan431's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:46 AM
im actually in college. the place of hookups. but no hooking up here. ugh

Lily0923's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:48 AM

tell them you don't want to kiss them


oops. I just gave away one of our sacred secrets. embarassed


we founding memebers in the secret lady society will be over tomorrow to take your lady card away.... you asked for it.

no photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:48 AM
ok,then trying going to places you like and try to talk to a girl there,at least try to start a conversation,then when the timing is right,ask her out(but make sure she has eye contact with you and doesnt get bored,if she does,then forget it,leave.)

Wonderbread's photo
Sat 02/09/08 12:50 AM
Edited by Wonderbread on Sat 02/09/08 12:51 AM

maybe you all are right. i guess id rather seek advice here than dates and such. il get a date by the time im 40 drinker !

Do i hear a remake of the 40 y/o virgin in the mix?
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!

And curios, not all chicks goto the mall to buy stuff. granted most of them do, but sometimes they're just as poor as me and you.

Newguy: Novel Idea! Goto the library and hit on the girls there, chances are they've never been kissed either, and then you can experiment!!!!!!