Topic: What Would You Think?
whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/08/08 09:09 PM
My boyfriend text me tonight asking to meet at 4-4:30. I responded with 5:30-6? I have dinner plans (keep in mind the question mark) 6:30 rolls around and still no Will. So I got upset, cause is not the first time he has kept me waiting. I ended up making other plans. But before I left I text him, "I am tired of waiting I am going out." He said, " Cool meet you are at Coffee Time?" I said "No, you were supposed to be here between 5:30-6, I made other plans." He responded, "I was waiting for you to finish dinner with your friend as in 5:30 -6:30." I said No, I said come between 5:30-6 and you said OK." He said, OK whatever see you Monday then." I said you should of thought of that before you kept me waiting." Then he forward the message: 5:30-6? I have dinner plans. I then responded "Did you not see the question mark?" He never responded after that.

Was I in the wrong here?

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 02/08/08 09:13 PM
It might have been a miscomunication... flowerforyou

greekboy08's photo
Fri 02/08/08 09:13 PM
You proabably should have let him know when you were done with your dinner plans.

darlarose's photo
Fri 02/08/08 09:14 PM
toooo confusing for me. Just go eat.Have some fun. That will scare him.

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Fri 02/08/08 09:16 PM
miscommunication.........don't let it go to long the tension will just build up. Call him and just say I think we had a misunderstanding, can we start over? Hate to have a bad weekend if it really was something this simple. Can see where one might get confused.

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Fri 02/08/08 09:16 PM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Fri 02/08/08 09:17 PM

My boyfriend text me tonight asking to meet at 4-4:30. I responded with 5:30-6? I have dinner plans (keep in mind the question mark) 6:30 rolls around and still no Will. So I got upset, cause is not the first time he has kept me waiting. I ended up making other plans. But before I left I text him, "I am tired of waiting I am going out." He said, " Cool meet you are at Coffee Time?" I said "No, you were supposed to be here between 5:30-6, I made other plans." He responded, "I was waiting for you to finish dinner with your friend as in 5:30 -6:30." I said No, I said come between 5:30-6 and you said OK." He said, OK whatever see you Monday then." I said you should of thought of that before you kept me waiting." Then he forward the message: 5:30-6? I have dinner plans. I then responded "Did you not see the question mark?" He never responded after that.

Was I in the wrong here?


Just my opinion (and I can EASILY be wrong) I would think it was just miscommunication. Maybe next time instead of "texting", try "talking".

One thing I have noticed, not only typos in my posts, but also can have many failed meanings not get across in type.

Again..just my opinion. flowerforyou

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/08/08 09:16 PM
Edited by whispertoascream on Fri 02/08/08 09:17 PM

You proabably should have let him know when you were done with your dinner plans.


I did not think I needed to after thinking we already agreed to meet at 5:30 - 6

Cambolaya65's photo
Fri 02/08/08 09:18 PM
the first two words of this whole topic ruined it for me

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Fri 02/08/08 09:19 PM
just another miscommunication due to texting.. next time call and actually speak to the guy.

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/08/08 09:19 PM

the first two words of this whole topic ruined it for me


The words What Would?


He is the one that started texting me. So I just continued it.