if you cant find your perfect match do u think u should settle?

Very good question. I think I have settled(for the moment)!

I think about this all the time. I think that you should pick the most important things you want/need in a match. Those are the things you shouldn't settle in. The rest that is a bit less important, those things you can give in.

settle never. compromise after a relationship starts yes. if you settle for less than what you want, need or expect you will eventually end up unhappy.

I am perfectly happy with my hubby and my match....it's had its puts and downs but things always works out.....

Never have, no sense in starting now

I settled in my first marriage and now I have met my perfect match....

You'll regret it Tina if you settle!!!

There are somethings I won't settle for but compromises are a good thing. Just like Tony said, somethings may have to be worked out. There is NO person that will be perfect, but I plan to get pretty Damn close..

never ever settle!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nsCXZczTQXo

I would never settle, thats why Im still looking!!!

That's what I'm saying. A match is out there for each of us, we just have to be willing to wait for it and then work for it to last.

it is impossible to settle as each ones heart guide them so this is only a scare or fear tactic of the mind!!! What human ever spurred themself to ANY emotion? Nay it is impossible in me humble opinion

No...I have done that...bad mistake.
I will take as long as I need to to find the perfect mate, even if it takes me years.
I will never settle for second best ever again. I have done it too many times only to be trapped in a dissapointing situation.

if we feel we have settled than what CAN be seen within the situation will elude us, and the same things happen again and one wonders why, as the truth of anything is never fully seen if it is even thought of as a mistake, as the mind will then send one out to avoid mistakes, so the thing has to be turned into a positve to never happen again....if we add negative into tomarrow by leaving it as a negative, how can tomarrow be any different?

Unless its REALLY good, I would rather be alone!

I would never settle .... Why would anyone strive for mediocrity in any aspect of thier life.. if something is not right in your life it is up to you to change it ... this question seem kind of silly to me.... The goal in life shouldn't be to find Mr Right it should be to live your life to the fullest with or without someone....

Carpe diem

Pura Vida

How can anthing live life to the fullest if the mind has any doubts about anything, as then we only try to live but do not, but if there is any negative impulse within us from any days gone by, than these are by default added into tomarrow, and we only say we have dealt with it, but to say that shows we have not, and why let yesterday effect tomarrow when nothing that was then was a mistake, rather it shows night versus day, good versus bad....hot does not exist without cold, so both are needed, so than whom has errored???

Pya Vida... where did you get that?
You must have been to Costa Rica.