Topic: Work Advice
dae11x's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:26 PM
It's been almost a year since I've been at my company at this location, and since day one there has been a person who has been all over my ass about everything. She's very passive-aggressive and has tried to undermine my professional relationships with everyone. My boss is great and doesn't seem to realize what kind of person she is. I just had my review and things were brought up that weren't entirely true, they were just her spin to the main office, which came back to him. I decided not to say anything because I know what kind of person I am, but how long do I keep it up? My Mom tells me to let her hang her own rope and just deal with it.

Any thoughts?

BizarreKelley's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:27 PM
What kinds of things on your review? Things that could impede on your salary or promotion through the company?

Jill298's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:27 PM
first of all, what kind of job do you do?

SonOfJack's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:29 PM
just phuck with her, show her knives and ****, punk her azz out

Jill298's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:30 PM
you really have to stand up for yourself, but keep it in a very professional manner. Don't let her ruin your rep, ESPECIALLY to your bosses and human resources.

dae11x's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:51 PM

What kinds of things on your review? Things that could impede on your salary or promotion through the company?
Personal things on my review, like how it was a "rocky start" with her. She pushed me on everything, even questioning my knowledge of MN rules, which I had 4 years of experience with. At one point when I pushed back, she told me if I didn't like it I should just quit.

I don't think the review has anything to do with my raise or a promotion, because I'll be in the same position either way.

Sorry I just had to rant. Thank you guys for listening

BizarreKelley's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:52 PM
Is she your supervisor?

dae11x's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:52 PM

first of all, what kind of job do you do?


Paralegal

dae11x's photo
Thu 02/07/08 06:58 PM

Is she your supervisor?
No

BizarreKelley's photo
Thu 02/07/08 07:00 PM
well that's good at least. I say to let it slide UNLESS it's something that can negatively impact your success there.

dae11x's photo
Thu 02/07/08 07:02 PM
Oh, by the way, this really is a current photo of me. I AM that geeky looking.

BizarreKelley's photo
Thu 02/07/08 07:03 PM
<-- queen of dorkiness!!!

dae11x's photo
Thu 02/07/08 07:14 PM

<-- queen of dorkiness!!!
Thanks. I think...