there's this guy i talk to on the phone from this site. we've been
talking for about a month. the last time we talk on the phone was the
day before thanksgiving. everytime i call him we doesnt answer and he
doesnt return my calls. should i just let it go and not call him or
should i just wait for him to call?

let it go, but then onther other hand...can't you take a hint...

ok

YEAH IF HE DOES'NT PICK UP THE PHONE HE PROBOBLY DOES NOT LIKE YOU AND
HE MIGHT NOT RETURN YOUR CALLS BECAUSE HE DOES'NT WANT TO TALK TO YOU -
SO SORRY -

Single, if its been that long, honey, he may have not really of
liked you that well, and if im wrong, then maybe he might still call??
Alot of things can happen to cause him to not have the time??
But, even good friends, would have called you by now.....
And Single,,,,I don't think that I could have ever given my last
advice to a sweeter person. GOD BLESS YOU, and you will be fine.

well he did message me saying he's been to tired also. cuz i work 5pm
till 11pm and he works a different shift. he lives like 10min away from
me. maybe i should stop in his work just to say hi to him. i'm always
shy on meeting someone. i think i might have blew it with him cuz he's
invited me to his place after i get off work but the only thing is that
i dont have my own car. anyways i guess i'll wait till he calls if not
i'm gonna let it go.

YUCK

you could have invited him to your place instead as you dont have a car.

its kinda hard when i dont live alone.

spay i've met people off the net before. none worked out. so you cant
say yuck. the one i've met lasted 3yrs before i left him.

yo you look like a cross eyes man ,you sure you a lady?

i dont mean to rude or anything ok.

TEN MINUTES AWAY?

Single, I hate to put it this way: If he lives 10 mintues away and
hasn't arranged anything (such as picking you up to go to a movie, to go
out to eat or just go to a park), the only meeting suggested is "Hey,
come on over to my place tonight because I'm lonely and Horny" and
you've been talking on the phone for a month to the guy. The guy is
probably getting bored with the situation or he found someone else that
is either making the trip to his house or he found someone else to
persue.

The situation tells me all to clear that it's about one thing (which is
all good if you're both down for that). The thrill of the chase is fun
but Guys get bored of a fruitless chase at some point and just move on.

To answer your question about showing up at his work, it Might work to
jump start the chase (it might not). But if you have some romantic
notion that this is the beginings of a longterm thing it's a long shot
at best.

Good Luck.....

Devin...LMFAOPMP!!!!

I don't mean to be RUDE but you look like a cross eyed man?...ROWLPMP...

Devin, are you trying to say you meant that in a "Nice-way"? Dude, when
you see a little old lady about to cross the street do you just Trip her
because she's going to fall some time anyway?...lmafao...I don't mean to
be rude, get the f**k outta here....lol

Ok I'll give you a chance....IF You didn't mean to be Rude, how did you
mean it?

sluggo made a good point about being only ten minutes away. i'd move on
or let him call you and then play it by ear but i would not go to his
place of business considering the circumstances

I am in love with sluggo.... he is my man...!!!! Tell him like it is
HONEY!!!! :o)

T

Davin doesn't talk to much Sluggo!!! as far as I know he says what he
feels, and end of discussion, LOL lol, lol
lmfao, lol

And single, if he doesn't call you or emailed you
forget him, don't even go there,
you are #1 #2 and #3 let him know later what he missed,
but don't go after him, he may have someone else or maybe changed his
mind, and you will end up getting your feelings hurt, because by the way
you are writing this topic, looks like you have strong feelings for
him........


Morena

Absolutely move on, he knows how to find you if he wants, hold your head
up high, girl!

Hey King, consider the situation. I think it's obvious that he's
thinking with his little head here (don't you agree?). Considering thats
the situation and say he works in a Hardware store or some place like
that and she goes in as a customer and flirts: wouldn't you think that
she'd have a chance to put a quick spark back (to get the guy back to
thinking with his dick)?

Morena.... If thats the case and considering he has the tact of a Bull
in a China Shop maybe he should talk a little less..lmafao...or learn to
communicate a little better...but on a side note some of the short
choppy posts are funny...;-)