Why is it that so many times when a man is truly sincere with his profile and with his communication you ladies seem to be looking for the "con" in it all, instead of accepting his genuineness? Online seems to be a hard place for a nice man to connect since the ladies can't see in his eyes and hear in his voice that he IS FOR REAL?

maybe its because it sounds too good to be true

when you've been burned it is hard to believe what others have to say about themselves.. trust issues..

there are so many cons out there we have been conditioned to be on gaurd.. my advice is to be a gentlemen about it and stay sincere

The cons make it hard for the men who are really sincere...

70% cons+ 30% sincere= cautious woman

I'm looking for a nice man!

*correction


64% player
6% con
30% sincere
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cautious women

I stand corrected.

I think so many people don't trust others from the internet because anyone can say anything on here! Then after people have been burned a few times they have trouble trusting anyone, yes even the honest ones.
I think the key to any kind of relationship, even friendship, is trust. If you can't trust anyone that you talk to on here, why even be here? But you have to admit, lots of people that come on here are not sincere about things they do. They play their little games and then they make it harder for the next person.
My advice to you is just be yourself and I am sure the right one will come along.

So, just HOW are we supposed to tell the difference? We don't know you, we have never talked with you.