Topic: frustrated with the male race
lynn83's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:45 AM


Guys..im sick of you toying with me and only using me for one thing...do you ever grow up and start to care about a person for who they are and not what they look like?!!!


I think , speaking only for myself , is that you are obviously having trouble with the BOYS in your age group, for not all MEN are that shallow , but thanks for grouping us ALL together ... flowerforyou
Have a nice day anyway flowerforyou :wink:


He's very right. A friend and I were talking abotu this the other day. The fact that dating young guys (boys by the way they act) and dating a MAN is so different. Men know how to treat Women and girls only go after boys that act... well, their age. You have to be careful cause truthfully even some older guys don't act like men. But there are so many good and wonderful MEN out there you just have to look for them. Good luck

Lovelyer's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:45 AM


are most guys jerks?


Short answer: YES
no i am not dude, i am someone who likes to treat ladies nicely but BASED on my last experience i am starting to change my mind Cuz girls also act ****ty and screw up.... anyway,, i am sorry but this is a bad day for me so i must say treat *****es as u dont wanna be treated...

yes sirrrr

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:46 AM
mad IM FRUSTRATED WITH MEN TOO !!!mad

Lovelyer's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:47 AM



Guys..im sick of you toying with me and only using me for one thing...do you ever grow up and start to care about a person for who they are and not what they look like?!!!


I think , speaking only for myself , is that you are obviously having trouble with the BOYS in your age group, for not all MEN are that shallow , but thanks for grouping us ALL together ... flowerforyou
Have a nice day anyway flowerforyou :wink:


He's very right. A friend and I were talking abotu this the other day. The fact that dating young guys (boys by the way they act) and dating a MAN is so different. Men know how to treat Women and girls only go after boys that act... well, their age. You have to be careful cause truthfully even some older guys don't act like men. But there are so many good and wonderful MEN out there you just have to look for them. Good luck

thanks :)

no photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:47 AM
im frustrated with men 99.9% of the timeohwell laugh

Lovelyer's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:48 AM


in this generation its tough for men to act their age and grow up because their parents didnt raise them right


my parents raised me right but im still an as$hole

i dont think that is something to brag about...?

Lovelyer's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:49 AM

im frustrated with men 99.9% of the timeohwell laugh

omg..meee toooooo!!!!
but they are like a drug...and im def. addicted...lol
:smile: :wink: laugh happy :tongue: smooched

davidben1's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:50 AM

Guys..im sick of you toying with me and only using me for one thing...do you ever grow up and start to care about a person for who they are and not what they look like?!!!


those are not the type guys you are attracted to right now in your life is all.....gotta have the bad ones for a while to appreciate and accept the reformed ones, lol....how can al the guys be that, or does it make more sense that if we keep gettin the same kind what are WE doing to make it so?

lynn83's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:50 AM




Guys..im sick of you toying with me and only using me for one thing...do you ever grow up and start to care about a person for who they are and not what they look like?!!!


I think , speaking only for myself , is that you are obviously having trouble with the BOYS in your age group, for not all MEN are that shallow , but thanks for grouping us ALL together ... flowerforyou
Have a nice day anyway flowerforyou :wink:


He's very right. A friend and I were talking abotu this the other day. The fact that dating young guys (boys by the way they act) and dating a MAN is so different. Men know how to treat Women and girls only go after boys that act... well, their age. You have to be careful cause truthfully even some older guys don't act like men. But there are so many good and wonderful MEN out there you just have to look for them. Good luck

thanks :)


You're welcome. Just remember some men have only met women that cheat and are money hungry etc... we all have to remember not to generalize each other. And try not to take our past into our future, rather learn from the past and only take what we have learned into the future. I hope everyone finds what they are looking for.

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Wed 02/06/08 09:51 AM

im frustrated with men 99.9% of the timeohwell laugh
still there is the 0.1% remaining, is that the beauty of the thing? valuable things are not found in every streets cornerflowerforyou

tigerman1956's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:52 AM


im frustrated with men 99.9% of the timeohwell laugh

omg..meee toooooo!!!!
but they are like a drug...and im def. addicted...lol
:smile: :wink: laugh happy :tongue: smooched



FIRST OF ALL YOU HAVE THE HANDLE OF " LOVE LYER " MAKES ONE THINK????????????
AND FOR THE REST OF YOU WHO ARE FUSTRATED WITH MEN, ITS NO WONDER, THE WAY YOU PUT US DOWN, INSTEAD OF ACCEPTING US FOR WHO WE ARE

sexxyandsingle's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:53 AM


im frustrated with men 99.9% of the timeohwell laugh

omg..meee toooooo!!!!
but they are like a drug...and im def. addicted...lol
:smile: :wink: laugh happy :tongue: smooched


a woman as beatiful as yourself, is more likelly to attract azz holes, compared, to well, u know what im tryin to say:smile: :smile: :smile: :smile:

Lovelyer's photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:55 AM



im frustrated with men 99.9% of the timeohwell laugh

omg..meee toooooo!!!!
but they are like a drug...and im def. addicted...lol
:smile: :wink: laugh happy :tongue: smooched


a woman as beatiful as yourself, is more likelly to attract azz holes, compared, to well, u know what im tryin to say:smile: :smile: :smile: :smile:


right..but i just dont get that. ive talked to alot of guys like that and they say they feel intimidaed..like...'im too good for them'? i try to stress that im not better than the next person that comes along.

no photo
Wed 02/06/08 09:57 AM

im frustrated with men 99.9% of the timeohwell laugh


Wow! You mean I'm in the .1% of anything now!!??? noway drinker laugh flowerforyou

JustLooking3's photo
Wed 02/06/08 10:00 AM
Well said:smile:

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Wed 02/06/08 10:01 AM
ok to everyone that commented on what i said...it was meant to be in humor. And im sure men get frustrated with me too.lol

Drivinmenutz's photo
Wed 02/06/08 10:02 AM
Edited by Drivinmenutz on Wed 02/06/08 10:06 AM
i still think a lot of this you can boil down to the initial attraction. what makes us attracted to someone are two things, animal instinct (survival/reproduction) and society. In fact the only sense used in attraction that doesn't get filtered through past memories of what should/shouldn't be attractive is the sense of smell...(hint) that being said, people base too much emphasis on looks and how a person presents his/herself.(which includes confidence, posture,etc.) This is subconcious but still a little shallow (everyone is guilty of it). I wonder if we didn't act so impulsive if we would be better off... I wonder what would happen if guys didn't jump on the first beautiful woman they saw, or if girls didn't throw themselves at that "alpha male" figure. Sometimes if you sit there and watch someone you can find out, through the persons actions/conversation, that they aren't all they are cracked up to be. Kinda like Jessica Simpson, or 328480327432 other attractive actresses/actors/singers. Has anyone ever been really attracted to someone then found out he or she was a creep? I am most definately guilty of such actions. Anyway, i guess what i am really trying to say is don't just jump at someone that is attractive to you (this goes for guys and girls, men/women). Sometimes the person that you are not quite as drawn to initially may actually be the most attractive person you ever met. ok, sorry this was my retarded comment of the day.

LandRover28's photo
Wed 02/06/08 10:02 AM
Although I don't toy with women and manipulate them to what I want (I could - but I know it's wrong), I find after I'm done having sex with them it's hard to find a purpose for them. I guess that's because she isn't pregnant.

Most women don't know what they want. It also seems when they think they do they still don't. That doesn't help us out at all.

You know what we want. Take it from there, plan around it or simply don't include it.


jtip1977's photo
Wed 02/06/08 10:02 AM

ok to everyone that commented on what i said...it was meant to be in humor. And im sure men get frustrated with me too.lol


Jamie - stop starting trouble laugh

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Wed 02/06/08 10:04 AM


ok to everyone that commented on what i said...it was meant to be in humor. And im sure men get frustrated with me too.lol


Jamie - stop starting trouble laugh


but i didntembarassed