Shoes is right... You go, girl! Keep that confidence... and no one will ever stand in your way!

thanks I knew you were a smart man

that was exceptionally rude and absolutely out of line

hey, I would slap a ***** if he said that lol, no one should ever treat u like that, u are beautiful

Hahaha I think this is soooo funny, not on your part sweetie but on his...You should never be treated like that you are beautiful!!! This is just an example of why kids should never drop out of the 3rd Grade...Where does he work "Smucks are us??"

Ok so here is what I would have done in that situation...I would have said "Hmmmmm so you think I need to lose some weight huh?? Ok hold on I will be right back..."Go to the kitchen grab the pit of Ben & Jerry's Brownie chocolate chunk and the box of Chocolate covered mint Oreos and the can of whip cream"...Now go back in and sit on the couch...The look on his face at this point is just like this ...Now first take the whip cream and spray a bunch in your mouth to the point that when you close it to swallow the whip topping it spews out your mouth, but don't wipe it off...Now grab 2 cookies and digg them into the chocolatey ice cream and top with the whip topping and smash them together and then take a nice bite...preferably the whole thing if you can...then while mouth is totally full of all this gooey indulgence say: "I am sorry how rude of me you want some??" Trust me after this the guy will have ran so fast out your front door that he almost forgets to open it and you will never hear or see him again!!! "WARNING THIS MAY CAUSE YOU TO PUKE BUT....NEVER WILL IT KEEP YOU FROM EATING CHOCOLATE!!!

Sorry for coming in late. Did you leave any of his teeth in place? What the heck( I'm REALLY trying to keep this clean)!

Girl you are beautiful....never listen to a man that talks to you like that. They have a problem....definately not you!

oMG!!! TELL ME WHO THIS IDIOT IS!!!

what an ahole !

I've dated someone like this before... for like 5 minutes. He was a bigger jerk than anyone I think I've ever met... and truth be told, he had WAY more flaws than my chubbiness factor...

Most likely, he has serious deep seated issues and is going to be single longer than any of us.

should have told he looked like he needed to work out a bit too and was that bald patch, jee nice bloke shame about the personalty, well out of it hun

damn perfection seekers...what a waste of skin or sp__m

Yes!!! you dont need to lose anymore than maybe 10 lbs of we would have to see what any weight loss would do to the fullness of your dirty pillows. Nothing is worth that sacrifice

Okay, azard.....little confused by your statement......did I miss something or are you just a little "touched" tonight ?

that is totally wrong, but you should have looked him straight in the eye with a straight face and said "Oh, didn't I tell you my last name was Bobbit!! and pick up a knife"

after i saw your profile i did some "touching" allright
yes indeedy

he's toast.
sorry to hear about you getting slimed by this human slug....

I'd say "Oh! No problem babe! .... just as soon as YOU change your ENTIRE personality and become a decent human being. Let me know when that happens. I'll stay tuned"

haha 200 pounds of ugly dead weight.

or you could have retourted with... I'll lose weight when your **** gets bigger.... otherwise your not worth the time or effort.

what a loser.how can any man say that to a woman? be glad you found out what a jerk he was from the getgo.you asre better than that

OK the dude is clearly an idiot. But I'd more get a laugh out of it than anything. I mean if he wasn't attracted to you for any reason, that's fine, and it should have been it. But to say that is just rude, weird, and well... it really says a lot about him. But I'd say just laugh it off, and hey, you'll have it to add as one of your funny internet dating stories. I'll tell you my funny first date one too.

I met this girl and I wasn't really attracted to her. But I figured we'd still go out and have fun. We were going to the amusement park. While we're in line at the park, she brought up that I was engaged before. She asked if I got the ring back. I thought that was weird. But I told her. She asked if it was white or yellow gold. I said "Huh?" She said she was curious and I figured I wasn't going out with her again, so I told her. She then asked the shape of the diamonds, again I told her. She asked if it was 3 stone or a solitaire. I told her (The entire time thinking it was weird but I just didn't care.) THEN SHE ASKED IT. "How big was it?" I looked at her and said "Are you seriously asking me this question?" She said "Yeah, well... I just want to know." I thought for a second and just didn't care. So I told her. The words she said are hilarious. "Oh, I would need at least a 2 carrot ring. MY friend works at Littman Jewelers and she let me try on a 2 carrot solitaire. I fell in love with it and I don't want anything smaller. I know it costs as much as some cars, but I don't care."

Just be glad you didn't date him, and look back and laugh at the idiot.