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Topic: How long?
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Tue 02/05/08 03:22 PM


Usually about 15 minutes..all depends on how long it takes to track them down and drive or fly there. noway bigsmile drinker laugh flowerforyou
laugh lol you scare me


Don't worry, my team of psycholgists claim I am harmless! noway bigsmile drinker laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:22 PM



Usually about 15 minutes..all depends on how long it takes to track them down and drive or fly there. noway bigsmile drinker laugh flowerforyou
laugh lol you scare me


Don't worry, my team of psycholgists claim I am harmless! noway bigsmile drinker laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou
haha when is it time for them to re-evaluate?laugh

curios789's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:24 PM

I have never met anyone from this site but I have met people from online before... there is no set time limit, it depends on how comfortable you are with each other. There is a line between getting comfortable and just dragging it out.


I'd have to agree with you on that, Jill…

A lot of people think that you need a certain amount of time, like there's this magic formula. I think that if you trust someone enough, you should meet them. But, of course, trust DOES take a while. The majority of the people on this site are who they say they are, or at least somewhat close to it. Not saying that everyone can be trusted, but I think that trust is the main component on whether or not you should meet someone online.

hellkitten54's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:26 PM
I meet people all the time at the bar. I don't think it's that big of a deal as long as you don't think they are serial killers.smokin

misty_57's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:27 PM

7 days 12 hours 32 minites 4 seconds?
laugh laugh

Kenny2004's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:29 PM

I meet people all the time at the bar. I don't think it's that big of a deal as long as you don't think they are serial killers.smokin

Kenny2004's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:31 PM
meeting people in a bar is so yesterday. You don't know what your taking home.

hellkitten54's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:34 PM

meeting people in a bar is so yesterday. You don't know what your taking home.


I don't take people home from the bar.noway laugh But I'm just making a point that when I'm out and about, I meet new people all the time, small talk. So what's so different about meeting them online and then seeing them in person?

chuck366's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:35 PM
Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap

hellkitten54's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:36 PM

Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble

chuck366's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:36 PM


Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble


I can get training :wink:

hellkitten54's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:39 PM



Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble


I can get training :wink:


Oh yeah? Well I bartended before I had my son. Couldn't really date myself.ohwell

chuck366's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:40 PM




Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble


I can get training :wink:


Oh yeah? Well I bartended before I had my son. Couldn't really date myself.ohwell


I was a pro patron

hellkitten54's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:43 PM
Edited by hellkitten54 on Tue 02/05/08 03:43 PM





Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble


I can get training :wink:


Oh yeah? Well I bartended before I had my son. Couldn't really date myself.ohwell


I was a pro patron


Oh, you were "that" guy?laugh :wink:

It's ok. I know you tip well and probably always have good things to talk about.:wink:

chuck366's photo
Tue 02/05/08 03:47 PM






Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble


I can get training :wink:


Oh yeah? Well I bartended before I had my son. Couldn't really date myself.ohwell


I was a pro patron


Oh, you were "that" guy?laugh :wink:

It's ok. I know you tip well and probably always have good things to talk about.:wink:


and much more

hellkitten54's photo
Tue 02/05/08 04:02 PM







Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble


I can get training :wink:


Oh yeah? Well I bartended before I had my son. Couldn't really date myself.ohwell


I was a pro patron


Oh, you were "that" guy?laugh :wink:

It's ok. I know you tip well and probably always have good things to talk about.:wink:


and much more


I know your type. You and I would get along well. Seriously. Always make me think Bukowski, barfly.smokin

Goofball73's photo
Tue 02/05/08 04:06 PM
I say you wait until the background check, credit check and once you conduct those interviews with that person's ex's.....and all comes back ok....then you move on to the meet.:wink:

ellgee1976's photo
Tue 02/05/08 04:10 PM
meet once you and he/she are both comfortable with it..

meeting is a huge step, sometimes it blows up in your face, and sometimes it takes your relationship to another level, and sometimes, you just get a great friend outta the deal


just make sure your meeting is safe, there are rules you should follow...just think, how would you want your mom to handle a meeting?

no photo
Tue 02/05/08 06:32 PM




Usually about 15 minutes..all depends on how long it takes to track them down and drive or fly there. noway bigsmile drinker laugh flowerforyou
laugh lol you scare me


Don't worry, my team of psycholgists claim I am harmless! noway bigsmile drinker laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou
haha when is it time for them to re-evaluate?laugh


Thursday at 10 am...will you have coffee with me before they put me under??? drinker laugh flowerforyou

chuck366's photo
Tue 02/05/08 06:34 PM








Ive dated bartenders, they were normal and got me drunk cheap


I should have done that.grumble


I can get training :wink:


Oh yeah? Well I bartended before I had my son. Couldn't really date myself.ohwell


I was a pro patron


Oh, you were "that" guy?laugh :wink:

It's ok. I know you tip well and probably always have good things to talk about.:wink:


and much more


I know your type. You and I would get along well. Seriously. Always make me think Bukowski, barfly.smokin


lol

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