Many of You have been reading my post, and Im wondering what you all think of me
Plz be honest ^^
Im Young but I will learn to understand what you mean if I don't already

You seem cool and everything....just don't talk about death so much...maybe change your pic to an innocent little kitty or something. When death comes we'll know....we don't need to be told.... Other than that.....you're alright....see ya in the forums!!

I think you need to start preciving things in a much more positive note...


Thinking positive gives positive results...

Thinking negative gives negative results...

Try it some time- you will be amazed at how you feel then!

you are funny.. fairly easy going with a warped sence of humor... you are kind to those who you feel are deserving.. and protective of your friends.....

did i mention warped sence of humor..... lol


all in all you are a basicly a nice guy...

^^ I feel Special now ^^

Ummmmm, attention seeking, 'goth' "it's cool to talk about death" attitude. There is a time and a place for that and I do not believe it is here. I'll be honest, when I see you've posted a thread, I roll my eyes and move on. I'm only stating my thoughts here because you up front asked for them.

I say grow up and find something meaningful to talk about. I find nothing humourous in your antics, but am glad others do. I personally don't think joking around about death, destruction, and hurting others is something to make light of. Not with strangers. Not in a public forum.

You're a funny little person and you make me laugh, as for the death infatuation I like it, death is a part of life and it should be regarded as such, Kudos, two thumbs up, and all that rubbish...

i'd like to see a photo of u up and wearing anything but black and leaving out the death talk but u r your own person and as long as your happy with yourself thats what matters

Thanx lilth401 ^^

I know already that mant dont like what I post, but I honestly dont really care about those people, only those who are entertained by the same things that entertain me
Speaking of Death and things of that sort should be omething to laugh at, at least I think, Death is a serious thing, and making a joke of it is a joke itself,
again, Not everyone like the samethings, this I know, understand and respect ^^
and also, Im not Goth...Just like the darker side of life and like to laugh at it ^^

I do have a pic of myself wearing a gray suit, Im wear slacks and shoes most of the time, not Chained pants and Nightmare Before Christmas shirts and things like that, I like that look, but not to waer for myself,
I dont Always Talk about Death, only about 80% of the time, my poetry isnt always on Death and Morbid ^^

This just shows exactly the point- we are each free to think what we want and be amused by different things. And to respect the others opinions.

I saw you are young. Once you've gained a bit more life experience you might slow down and understand from where my stance is. The more you see and hear about death and destruction, the less allure it has. Also, do not rush to be satiated in this regard, for shock value has both avalue and purpose. You don't want to lose those this young.

I wish you fun, safety and continued respect. All I ask is that you write for the reader, and remember how many of us there are.

I went and read your profile you sound like a tipical teenager to me. Although you do have some ambitions for yourself which I think is good...

Keep Posting..

I'm gonna give you a mixed message here.

On one hand, speaking as someone who has made a career out of being non-mainstream, I can appreciate your persona. You're definitely out of the ordinary, and you get noticed. Nobody is going to say "He's just another guy on a dating site." And that, in my opinion, is a plus.

On the other hand -- I don't think this is the best venue for that persona. As dating sites go, this one skews a little older and a little more mainstream than many. You're going to find a lot of people here who are creeped out by some of the stuff you say here (believe me; I'm a moderator, I see these things) -- not that they constitute any sort of actionable rules violations, necessarily, but there are going to be people who don't get the full extent of the persona you exhibit. Not everybody is comfortable with dark humor.

But some of us are, and there are those of us -- myself included -- who will take the position that you have as much right to be here as anybody. Not everybody is going to be a "good and natural fit" here. Hey, I'm not, and I've been here for a year, so there must be some reason I stuck around!

Anyway, welcome to the site, and I hope you enjoy it as much as I do....

I can be selfish with certain things ^^
I am surprises that no one has left me a message asking me to stop with the post I do,

I write for me and then others, I do understand where you stand, and know many have experienced Death of family and Friends, but I would think that they would want you to still enjoy life without them there, so there is a reason one should learn to laugh at it,
Laughing is not someting to make fun of alway, but it shows that you reconize the exsistance ofwhat is being laughed at, its not an act to disrepsect but to show one is over it, and the pain is not as great as it once was

(Maybe I might not make sense to some, but this is part of what I think)

^^ ok, thanx LexFonteyne
You make a lot of sense, I like people who think like I do, and enjoy the humor I do, and I use that t kind of find those who do, and Talk to them
I do understand and reconize what the site is about,
I would also like to find a match...havent yet
I will consider others thoughts more, and if I seem to bother many, I will consider leaving the sites Better ^^
I have respect ^^
I choose to use it

death, you roll with who you are, me, having a very dark side myself as you well know, understand, some others you will need patience with, you help make and complete the spectrum with your irridecent purples, midnights, blues and deep greens to teals, it would be differrent...not the same, if you were not here to give us those colors,...in our humor, a little more dead, so to speak. remember, with your vast intelligence comes responsibilty, and these people are here, like you and me here, to communicate our views and loves, and it's our responsibily to be somewhat on the yes side for them, because they are here for us on the yes side as well. you can be high knowledged and great help with your research, because most don't know, and have questions, getting out of body myself and seeing me dead, changed my life, but i use the knowledge to help others, and hopefully easing someones pain, or fear. this is terrifying to most, and this is a vanilla site. but there's enough of us darks here to keep your company, at any rate. your true friend, darkowl-

Maybe you assumed too much or not enough there. I really haven't experienced many deaths in my life. I stand nowhere but in a land where you are not funny to me. This is far from personal, and only a matter of preference. There is a time and a place. I don't recall Kevin Bacon ever saying "and there was a time to read jokes about stuffing people in closets from total strangers". Now, if a close friend or even family member made off color death comments, I might laugh.

I do work around death (not directly or with dead bodies), and in the real world the glamour is not not there. It gets old, and loses it's power to be alluring. I don't need to laugh my pain away. I think you just need at least ten years before you can understand my point. And in that ten years, you know what? You'll get to stop hearing that phrase "you'll understand when you're older". That is exactly what I'm saying.

I laugh at things I find funny. I just don't find your antics funny. I totally admit I'm a hard laugh, that I can be too serious, and lots of times others think I take things seriously when I don't.

I saw Lex's post and I agree. I do say again, write for the reader.

Thanx Darkowl ^^ you always write with such depth, I try not tto sometimes, but I like how you do it,

lilth401, I am Young, this I know, at 18 I dont know a whole lot, we all laugh at what we find funny, and its not the same with everyone, this I also know and understand,
I can not Chnage my age, I only know what I know, and can only express what I know, being queite for 17 year is not something I want to do again, I just started talking, much like I took a lot longer to grow up, I have much to learn and experience, this to I know,
But someting I do not know is why I am the way I am, this is why I write the way I do, only from experience can one know something, so I write to attrace those like me, so I can find answers and better understand, I like to learn

But, I also want to let you know, I have a lot of Respect for you, and everyone on this site, for many reasons, including the fact that you all are older then me and know much more then I do, and I want to know what you all know and maybe more one day

i say be who you are... if you are dark or fasinated by death then be you.. especialy because this is a dating site.. people say to be who you are.. but most jsut conform. adn leave us to figure out who they really are in time... you at least are upfront about who you are.. and some of us apprecieate that....
my bf is the same way.. he is a bit twisted.. but doesnt bother to try to hide it.. his sence of humor is warped at times.. but he dosnt hide it.. and i apprecieate it.. and personaly liked it about him.. and if you are true to you.. then you will find that person who is ok with that too...

and as i stated before... to your friends you are kind and show a bit of a sensative side.. as well as the fact that you are protective of them... both of wich are good qualities to have as well..

be true to you..
you will not go wrong.

hey death, the kitten idea, would be a hoot. check them out, you ever see a cuter pair. these are my heavy artillary! not all the macabre stuff i have