question is what do you do with 1.duaghter whos boyfriend wont work or
look2.has anyone else had that problem can help make suggestions3.should
I still help here even if it cuases financial drain on me?

Is there a child involved?

Like he asked if there is a child involved yes, if not NO...
She made need to look into diff. options for her life I had to and Im
glad I did...

My 2 cents becuz I have this conversation with my ex about his 19 yr old
son all the time...
1. ask your self who YOU go to for help when you have exhausted your
resources supporting someone who is not doing for themselves.
2. Is she and he capable of supporting themselves?? LET THEM.
3. NO ONE will take care of themselves if they can get someone else to
do it for them.
4. If need be you show them your finacial obligations and ask them where
in the list do they see allowance for the deadbeat?
5. If you cant say "no" then get them to EARN the money you hand out.
Housework, errands, yard work, ect...

IF ANYONE IS GONNA DATE MY DAUGHTER HE BETTER BE WORKING SOMEWHERE. GROW
SOME BALLS AND STOP PAYING HIS BILLS WHILE HE IS DOING YOUR DAUGHTER !

SPAY

I was stuck in a situation with a baby and I don’t know what I would
have done without my parents help....So once again it depends on the
situation..

WELL IT DOES DEPEND ON THE SITUATION. BUT IF YOUR SON-IN-LAW IS BEING A
FREE LOADER SCUMBAG, U SHOULD DO WHATS BEST FOR YOUR DAUGHTER.

If there is a child involved. Get what the child needs, let the adults
take care of themselves even if she's your daughter.

Yeah, what he said!

IF there is a grandchild involved... move the daughter and grandchild
into the home, and tell the bf to go find someone else to sponge off.

There is something wrong here if the daddy of the child won't work to
support the children they make. My gawd, we are rasing lazy people
here.... just wrong!!!!

OHHH and you may want to tell your daughter to make sure that she and
her child (if there is one)are finacialy independant no matter if there
is a guy involed or not. My daughter made sure she had her OWN place,
with her OWN money cause her husband was going through some asshole
personally tyrant... Now there doing great... Made him take notice that
she did not need him and could make it on her own... WAKE UP CALL :o)

Yes what she said.. What her daughter went through is exactly what I
went through. Now I have a great job and dont need any ones help.. I
suggest you take the advise..

what Karma" and Ms. Tneal said is your good choices from what I see but
you must decide what to do...M.

*S* look I am a Ms.... whoohooo ty

GOOD MORNING M1313 - HOW WAS YOUR WEEKEND ?

Wow...Must be a special day here, I agree with Spray for once...lol

The earth has stopped moving... omg *cracking up*