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I wish I could give some good advice, but I obviously screwed up when I tried. Otherwise I'd be with the girl I loved still. All I can advise is lots and lots of patience. And be careful to make it obvious that it's not all about sex. ty |
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u just have to give it some time and support her and reassure her she is loved.
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u just have to give it some time and support her and reassure her she is loved.believe it or not sex is not everything. find things that u have in common,things u 2 can do.
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OK..Im dating this girl..She has been raped/abused by earlier boyfriends and is really skidish... For some reason she is always asking if im mad about random things...she gets mad at ME tho..for the simplest things.. But when we are just sitting around and talking..she is really loving and affectionate...but seems to ask me again..if im upset with her..and if i think we will be ok...and most of the time..she is REALLY unenthusiastic well as i have been in her shoes... give her time.. be patient.. reassure her.. and love her.. 
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she needs some councilling hun...time and patience wont be a easy journey but will get there eventually
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OK..Im dating this girl..She has been raped/abused by earlier boyfriends and is really skidish... For some reason she is always asking if im mad about random things...she gets mad at ME tho..for the simplest things.. But when we are just sitting around and talking..she is really loving and affectionate...but seems to ask me again..if im upset with her..and if i think we will be ok...and most of the time..she is REALLY unenthusiastic Move on, she's not ready to love or be loved, she needs that time to "fix" herself, she may not tell you that or even know it, but she is "damaged" and if you give in to her whims of "do you love me, is everything ok, are we ok" stuff you are enabling her to not help herself. Let her find her own inner strength, she can't do that in a relationship. |
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Only been 2 weeks...She is really nervous...always asking if im mad...is loving and affectionate..but is really unenthusasic...im not sure what to do how she is isnt her fault, i can garuntee she is trying her hardest but after what she has been thru you should just be there for her and listen to what she has to say. no one can begin to imagine what she must have gone thru at the hands of that person but she would appreciate somone who will talk and listen to her |
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