With women...period. Never have been, and don't see it falling together any time soon. Just too many pieces to fit on the small 30 piece puzzle. Long story short I developed myself all over again at the age of 14 and well, to be honest, women weren't exactly priority. So I am pretty much clueless of when a girl is interested, and I can usually screw up the "moment" relatively easy. I'm honest, and that sucks, terribly, because I'm honest at all the wrong times. Don't know about "good looking" as I've never really cared for dressing to impress, I dress in a way that I'm comfortable. Can't pick up on the "she's hitting on me" lines, not good at it. And can't understand why the mean guy gets the girl most of the time, trust me I've tried and put myself out to see if I could get the girl...I am afraid I will always make a better friend than an intimate partner, which in it's entirety isn't all that bad but I don't want to be 40 with 20 some odd girls that are just friends.

Welcome to my world, it's the same just with men

I feel for ya!
Love the hair!

Cheers Love the suit

im 42 and have female friends and yes it sucks.

I say, better to be happy with yourself, than try to change to be happy with someone else and pretend to be something you are not. Maybe you will "mature" a little as you grow older and become wiser and then things will fall into place, I didn't mature till I was 53, lol. So don't rush things, take things as they are, as long as you are happy!!!

You can be honest without being too ignorant......use tact.....a smile......a wink.....I can be pretty blunt too but most people laugh when I am because I do it in a way that doesnt hurt anyone's feelers!!

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/56322

I have an extra cast iron skillet that you can borrow, just put a sign on it that says hit me with this instead of hinting that you might like more than friendship. Still waiting to be hit with my cast iron skillet

I like this idea, I've always thought "if they would just hit me instead" would work a lot better than fitting 600 pieces on a 30 piece puzzle.

You hurt two of my feelers Gypsy,,,,, THANKS!!
lol I only have eight left,

Well, to me PERSONALLY, I think that getting BIG things into SMALL places is pretty COOL,,,lol,lol

oh honey....PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY!...

you are still so young... at 22 you are not expected to be an expert on relationships.. nor an expert on the oppsoite sex! Hell... there are folks 3 times your age still trying!

Ask your close friends to help you out... to help you figure out how to be honest and tactful at the same time.. how to read a girls body language.. an to hit ya in the head if necessary when they can see that soem girl is crushing on you (yet you are oblivious)

Best of luck!

one of these days u'll find a girl that'll work for ya...My problem is i'm too blunt...yeah i'll flirt with a guy but if he's not picking up on it...i'll just tell him...

That would be nice, at least then I would know haha.