I'm so depressed. I'm breaking so many guys' hearts, and I feel like I can't control myself. I am an emotional wreck, I think I should see a doctor.

no first tell me how you are doing it

are you being honest with them - or are you being a chamelion and appearing to be what each of them think that they want ?

Doing what?

No I'm being honest; but it's too early for me to be in a relationship again...my emotions are so congested, I don't know what I want. "I think I want this guy, no he's not right for me..."

Perhaps you might not want to try to jump into another relationship where you will break another heart, especially if you know you are not currently ready to be in a relationship.

Instead, tell them you'd like to just be friends while you get your life back in order and your emotions sorted out so that you have a better idea of what you want in life and in a partner before you get yourself and someone else involved emotionally into something that might not be right at this time.

Just a thought :)

dr. bob will help you, first lay down on the couch, and tell me about your parents....

so .. see one dear absolutely NOTHING wrong with therapy.

My Parents...are divorced, Dad left when I was six months old, cheated on Mom with 16 year old and moved to AZ. I stayed with Mom, til I was 14. Grandpa passed away when I was 12, I didn't get to say goodbye. Moved to AZ with Dad because I didn't get along with Step dad. Dad gets married a year later, I don't like step mom either. 16-20 Rebellious times, moved out twice, then spent one weekend with a guy, get into trouble with Dad for 4 wheelin my 4 runner. He says "your moving back to Moms."
I say NO. I move in with new guy, I get pregnant we get married, and 2 years later, here I am going through a divorce and he gets to keep my kid.

That pretty much sums it up!

Seriously sweetie, get professional counseling. Usually when you need guys to affirm you, there are big holes in your self esteem that need to be repaired

That just sounds like being female.

just take a break from dating, 3 months, 6 months even a year if you need it. look back in your previous relationship and see what went wrong, and try to make better from your mistake. so hopefully you don't make the same ones again. don't find a rebound, because he could of been the one if your emotions weren't congested. good luck