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Topic: I have a friend on here
AmberLeeAnn Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 90	Sat 02/02/08 09:06 AM
And I'm wondering whats preventing others from talking to her. I hate to think this, but I think its because everyone is shallow on here. I mean, this is going to come out wrong, but everytime I log in, I have almost 20+ people whose viewed me since the last time I've logged in. She doesn't have anyone whose viewed her. She's funny, cute, and smart. AND she's POSTED on here before. I just don't get it, and I'm really hoping that people arn't so shallow these days to where they won't even view her because of looks.

PJTocci Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 200	Sat 02/02/08 09:07 AM
everyone knows looks are everything. seriously.

matt26mabry Joined Mon 02/19/07 Posts: 36	Sat 02/02/08 09:07 AM
what is her screen name i will talk to her

AmberLeeAnn Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 90	Sat 02/02/08 09:08 AM
what is her screen name i will talk to her Well, I don't want to put her out there, all like that. lol. I'm just saying.

AmberLeeAnn Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 90	Sat 02/02/08 09:09 AM
everyone knows looks are everything. seriously. It's sad.

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Sat 02/02/08 09:09 AM
Maybe they haven't come across her yet.....I don't know her. I've never seen her. There's a lot of people on here and I KNOW I haven't seen everybody. I've never even seen you before. So, I don't think it's because the people on here are shallow.....there are a LOT of VERY nice, courtious people on this site...... Tell her to hang in there and keep posting so people get to know her...... It'll happen...

cenasgirl91 Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 309	Sat 02/02/08 09:09 AM
everyone knows looks are everything. seriously. looks are not everything! it depends whats on the inside

ThatKurtGuy Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 132	Sat 02/02/08 09:10 AM
everyone knows looks are everything. seriously. I'd have to agree. Well for me, at least, looks are JUST as important as personality. But... I won't have one without the other.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 02/02/08 09:11 AM
A lot of people really don't get much attention until they've been visible in the forums for awhile. I can't address specifics, since I don't have enough information to go on, but, as a general rule, forum exposure leads to more contacts.

TristanBru Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 494	Sat 02/02/08 09:13 AM
Why isn't she on your friend list then? All you have on your friends are lot of guys with wash board abs. Now who's stuck on looks.

cenasgirl91 Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 309	Sat 02/02/08 09:14 AM
everyone knows looks are everything. seriously. I'd have to agree. Well for me, at least, looks are JUST as important as personality. But... I won't have one without the other. sometimes looks are important but after you meet someone and you really like that person one day you will find yourself standing up for them

cherryxxangel89 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 762	Sat 02/02/08 09:15 AM
who is your friend

PJTocci Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 200	Sat 02/02/08 09:15 AM
everyone knows looks are everything. seriously. I'd have to agree. Well for me, at least, looks are JUST as important as personality. But... I won't have one without the other. exactly what i was trying to say

ThatKurtGuy Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 132	Sat 02/02/08 09:16 AM
everyone knows looks are everything. seriously. I'd have to agree. Well for me, at least, looks are JUST as important as personality. But... I won't have one without the other. sometimes looks are important but after you meet someone and you really like that person one day you will find yourself standing up for them I can have friends that I do not find attractive, but I was speaking about a possible girlfriend or date. I just couldn't date a girl that I didn't find attractive, same as I couldn't date a girl who didn't have a good personality.

AmberLeeAnn Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 90	Sat 02/02/08 09:18 AM
Why isn't she on your friend list then? All you have on your friends are lot of guys with wash board abs. Now who's stuck on looks. Just to let you know, she's a friend of mine in REAL LIFE, and we just never got around to adding each other on here. And all my friends are people who sent out friend request. I never turn anyone down, I.E. why there are so many. So, thanks for pointing out the not needed obvious.

jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Sat 02/02/08 09:20 AM
who is your friend

Enya Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2077	Sat 02/02/08 09:22 AM
what is her screen name i will talk to her EVEN IF THAT WAS GIVEN OUT,ITS NOT ALLOWED. WE CANNOT POST A PERSONS URL.

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Sat 02/02/08 09:23 AM
sheeeeesh...I will talk to anyone, whether they feel ugly or beautiful about themselves makes no difference to me.A lot of whom I talk to I would never consider dating or starting a serious relationship because of our age difference. lolo...I even talk to a few guys, and I certainly would not consider dating them It has to do with common interests, in most cases

jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Sat 02/02/08 09:23 AM
i have seen never u post b4:flowerforyou but i did email u a couple times she should just post and be online a lot

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Sat 02/02/08 09:24 AM
sheeeeesh...I will talk to anyone, whether they feel ugly or beautiful about themselves makes no difference to me.A lot of whom I talk to I would never consider dating or starting a serious relationship because of our age difference. lolo...I even talk to a few guys, and I certainly would not consider dating them It has to do with common interests, in most cases I have guy friends on here too.....I talk to everyone..... I don't leave anyone out......I LOVE this site!!!