ok well been friends with this guy for over a year.. went to hang out for the 1st time. well we just really hit it off I didnt feel weird around him. he keep saying "what are we gonna do about this?" but the thing is we live alil over an hr away an he doesnt have a car cuz sum one hit it an doesnt work now. he doesnt have a job becus where he did work sold out an the new people fired everyone.. not his falt, having a hard time findin a new one. but im just lost to what he ment by "this" if anyone has a clue please let me know.. is it a guy thing?? ty

sounds to me like he's not sure where to go with it either. It may be that he feels unsure about getting involved with someone when he's got so many other things to deal with. Like no car, no job.

I have a novel idea for you...


Why don't you ASK him ???

I think what he means about "this" is that you hit it off so well and is hinting at where do you go from there.

ah. aaronz, master of the obvious!!

I plan to when I talk to him next, just dont wanna get my hopes up then be shot down

I answered u on ur other post with the same info..go there..

I saw that, thank you

why do you have two threads with the exact same topic going?

He's telling you discreetly hes into you and hes looking at you to as a whole....... its more like a hidden message guys send when they are to nervous to be straight forward.....

The sssssite was ssssstuttering for a wh-wh-wh-while!

I also think you should just ask him what he means by "this" and go from there

you know.. I really have no clue. lol boredom

I also gave you my opinion on the other thread :P

true but they have different topic names...

I did see multiple postings and multiple threads but they had the same titles...

ty I hope ur right. but to everyone else I am going to ask him when I get to talk to him.. kinda hard when he uses his friends computer so we can talk..sucks

ok so im a loser.. so what.. no one was really posting anything.. gosh calm urself!!

redhead..... "This" means that since he doesn't have a car or a job, he can't come to see you or spend money taking you out. He probably wants you to take the initiate and say, hey, don't worry, I have a car, so I can come to see you. Additionally, he also wants you to tell him not to worry about spending money on entertainment, that you will pick up the tab until he gets a job.

You need to make a decision as to whether this guy is worth while, because he probably has more financial woes than he is telling you.

wow thank you never would have thought about that