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Topic: YA YA Chica-Sisterhood Club - part 2
Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 02/02/08 11:26 AM
3 rules for dating: #1 .. HAVE FUN #2 .. HAVE MORE FUN #3 .. ya, you know the drill

mommyof1 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 25303	Sat 02/02/08 12:30 PM
ya'll have left out some important ones I say 1 men are just dogs, they have only one thing on there mind 2 never believe any rumors you hear from other nor start any about others it will always come back and haunt you 3 never think you can change some one to be the way you want them you will only be disapointed wow! U are sooooo right!"slaps high five" high five back 4 tell em to tell the young men, that there dad does not take kindly to them being hurt and he takes a personal interest in her happiness 5 tell her if she can say no for 6 months and he still is coming back he may be sincere MUAH!!! (((((Chuck))))) YA YA

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 02/02/08 12:33 PM
Comin round to see how's things in the HOOD ... SISTAH 'HOOD'

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Sat 02/02/08 01:24 PM
((((((((Liz)))))) ((((((Blanka)))))))) Ok question for today? If you could teach young girls 3 things that would better equip them in the big nasty dating world, what would they be. 1. Don't be a skank.....men will fuk ya but will never take ya home to momma 2. Be truthful and honest. 3. And don't settle for anything less the greatness in a man. Have fun chicas. I will share with you the Mantra I have been teaching every any girl for over a decade now.. (you would be amazed at how many can recite this verbatim! LOL LOL ) The Just Say NO Mantra for young ladies: It doesn't matter how good he looks, It doesn't matter how good he smells, It doesn't matter hwo good he treats you (he is supposed to treat you great anyway!) And if he REALLY loves you - he'll buy them for you! (I added that line after the birth of my last child! LOL) Actually, when my daughter's friends are with me, they know they are held to the same rules/standards I expext from my girls.. To remember you are a young lady and shoudl be treated as such. 1 - NO words across your butt... there is NO reason you need to use your a$$ as a billboard.. Draw attention to your face, not your derierre. And to remember.. you can be sexy & alluring WITHOUT dressing like a harlot. 2 - Do not let anyone treat you like chit.. not even yourself. This falls under my Self Responsibility* talk.. 3 - EDUCATION! Learn as much as you can and never stop learning! Yeah.... I can be a pretty tough Angel fixes halo

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Sat 02/02/08 01:25 PM
((((((((Liz)))))) ((((((Blanka)))))))) Ok question for today? If you could teach young girls 3 things that would better equip them in the big nasty dating world, what would they be. 1. Don't be a skank.....men will fuk ya but will never take ya home to momma 2. Be truthful and honest. 3. And don't settle for anything less the greatness in a man. Have fun chicas. I will share with you the Mantra I have been teaching every any girl for over a decade now.. (you would be amazed at how many can recite this verbatim! LOL LOL ) The Just Say NO Mantra for young ladies: It doesn't matter how good he looks, It doesn't matter how good he smells, It doesn't matter hwo good he treats you (he is supposed to treat you great anyway!) And if he REALLY loves you - he'll buy them for you! (I added that line after the birth of my last child! LOL) Actually, when my daughter's friends are with me, they know they are held to the same rules/standards I expext from my girls.. To remember you are a young lady and shoudl be treated as such. 1 - NO words across your butt... there is NO reason you need to use your a$$ as a billboard.. Draw attention to your face, not your derierre. And to remember.. you can be sexy & alluring WITHOUT dressing like a harlot. 2 - Do not let anyone treat you like chit.. not even yourself. This falls under my Self Responsibility* talk.. 3 - EDUCATION! Learn as much as you can and never stop learning! Yeah.... I can be a pretty tough Angel fixes halo E, these are great

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 02/02/08 01:26 PM
I agree ... nice Light!!

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Sat 02/02/08 01:27 PM
((( Erin ))) Spoken like the True Lady that you are. Your daughters & their friends have a great Lady to look up to

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Sat 02/02/08 01:27 PM
((((((((rara))))))))))

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Sat 02/02/08 01:33 PM
(((( SuzinVa )))) How ya doing today?

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Sat 02/02/08 01:36 PM
I'm ok rara! Thanks for the friend add

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Sat 02/02/08 01:41 PM
Thanks Chicas I am NO prude... and I love, laugh, hug, sing and enjoy life... I raise my girls (and any who willlisten) the same way. I talk with the boys too... but it is the girls that I have found need the most guidance. Every single child in this area, whether they have met me or not, KNOW to call me if they are ever in a jam. EVERY girl in my daughter's grade (jrs in HS) know to call me if they are somewhere they feel uncomfortable. A lot of times these girls just need someone to let them know they have options! And even more than that.. they need someone to help them THRU the learning stages! It is one thing to tell them, another to be there to back up your words... I back up my words. Since the 1980's women have been portrayed to be sexy lust kittens 24/7... little girls trading in baby dolls for make up and mid-drifts. Nope.. not here. And we have fully discussed the whole do not judge a book by it's cover concept.. including the FACT that while I raise my children to base their opinions on actions/words not just looks.. that OTHERS do not subscribe to this way of thinking. Abd if they are hanging with kids that are bad news, dress like tramps, etc... then THEY will be judged the same. Nutshell..... Be a lady, know you are responsible for your actions, get an education... and Live life fully!

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sat 02/02/08 01:41 PM
all over rara's face......you are an honary chica mr.

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Sat 02/02/08 01:45 PM
((( Erin ))) Spoken like the True Lady that you are. Your daughters & their friends have a great Lady to look up to aaawww, thanks Ed and YOU sir, are a fine example of a gentleman

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sat 02/02/08 01:48 PM
I AM 3-WAYING THE BOARD TO INDUCT ERIN LIGHTVOICE INTO CHICAHOOD

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Sat 02/02/08 01:48 PM
Aye, aye, aye

mommyof1 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 25303	Sat 02/02/08 02:07 PM
Welcome into the YA YA'S Erin!!!!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 02/02/08 02:24 PM
Welcome into the YA YA'S Erin!!!! YA YA babe

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sat 02/02/08 02:26 PM
It was a no brainer.....my sweet erin is a chica HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY DANCE

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Sat 02/02/08 02:29 PM
curtsey Why thank you my chicas~! You ladies represent stregnth, a zest for life, true friendship and all that is wildly wonderful about being a woman I am honored more than I can express

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sat 02/02/08 02:34 PM
No thank you.......It's a pleasure to have such a strong, independent, courageous woman aboard...