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Topic: My age!
leahherod's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:54 PM
Ok yes...I'm 18. But I am older mentally and emotionally than my age....why do people judge before they know me?

the_don6972's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:55 PM
they do the same thing to me but i always say age is just a number what matters is how mature a person is

no photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:56 PM
You have 8 posts. Who is judging you????huh

yvory's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:56 PM
because they have nothing better to do.

if youngin's can learn from the oldies... oldies can learn from the youngins too :smile:

the_don6972's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:56 PM
your really hot by the way leah

camicakes's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:57 PM
It happens to me too. I can't figure out why either.

Enya's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:57 PM

they do the same thing to me but i always say age is just a number what matters is how mature a person is


AGE IS JUST A NUMBER,TRUE.
{AS LONG AS YOUR 18 OR OLDER}

leahherod's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:57 PM
Well I messaged a guy who was 25 and he said sorry you're too young... He doesn't even know me haha. I could be more mature than him.

drtbkrach's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:57 PM

Ok yes...I'm 18. But I am older mentally and emotionally than my age....why do people judge before they know me?


Because some people only see the numbers.

leahherod's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:58 PM
Well I messaged a guy who was 25 and he said sorry you're too young... He doesn't even know me haha. I could be more mature than him.

yvory's photo
Wed 01/30/08 09:59 PM

Well I messaged a guy who was 25 and he said sorry you're too young... He doesn't even know me haha. I could be more mature than him.


because people associate everything with a number.






LadyOfMagic's photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:00 PM
Everybody judges everybody..even without knowing them..thats just how the world is

Maudred's photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:00 PM
"Age is but rings on a tree, we are only as old as our minds wish our bodies to be!"

Totage's photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:05 PM

Ok yes...I'm 18. But I am older mentally and emotionally than my age....why do people judge before they know me?


flowerforyou drinker

no photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:05 PM
He might have felt that you wouldnt be able to go with him to certain social places like a bar, club or even resteraunt because you are under 21. I wouldnt take it personal.flowerforyou



Well I messaged a guy who was 25 and he said sorry you're too young... He doesn't even know me haha. I could be more mature than him.

yayforchae's photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:08 PM
I'm hate to be the odd one out, but age is much more than a number. If I were the guy you messaged, I would have said you were too young as well. You may very well be mature for your age, but you're still at a very different point in your life than someone at 25. I'm 22 now and can honestly say I am a completely different person than I was when I was 18. People grow, mature and change throughout the end of teen years and early 20's. Hope that makes a bit more sense to you.

shutterbug63's photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:10 PM
I don't know, leah. Age is really only a number, so long as you are both at least 18. I'm 44 and my girl is 31. We don't have any problem talking to each other. But I suppose people have their own reasons, and it could be anything, including the part about wanting someone who is 21 so they can go drinking. But then, if he only wants that, maybe he's not so cool after all?

leahherod's photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:11 PM
Ok well...people change throughout their lives so to pin point that to one age period isn't smart.

no photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:12 PM
Very well said.


I'm hate to be the odd one out, but age is much more than a number. If I were the guy you messaged, I would have said you were too young as well. You may very well be mature for your age, but you're still at a very different point in your life than someone at 25. I'm 22 now and can honestly say I am a completely different person than I was when I was 18. People grow, mature and change throughout the end of teen years and early 20's. Hope that makes a bit more sense to you.

rara777's photo
Wed 01/30/08 10:13 PM
Edited by rara777 on Wed 01/30/08 10:14 PM

because they have nothing better to do.

if youngin's can learn from the oldies... oldies can learn from the youngins too :smile:



Very good point young lady flowerforyou yvory flowerforyou

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