Topic: just breath
southern_bee's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:30 PM
just need to vent here..
first the helio cell phone company sucks the policy sucks..i know cuz im tech support..

second of all.i tell people im a blunt and honest person,and they say great.so right off the bat they get a verbal warning and when i have to be blunt they end up getting mad at me..laugh

not much too say..but now i feel betterlaugh

how is everyone elses day going?

drtbkrach's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:31 PM
"The truth? You can't handle the truth!" That's exactly why people get mad. =]

southern_bee's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:32 PM
laugh laugh

evidently but thats the same reason why my friends come to me for advice laugh

duckiegiggles's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:33 PM
but when you are blunt do you do it so it sounds like youre ignorant or rude?

southern_bee's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:35 PM
i actually think what im going to say..so not to be out right mean or rude

duckiegiggles's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:36 PM
then there shouldnt be a problem

southern_bee's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:37 PM
i swear that some people live in a fairy tale land laugh

Woni's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:39 PM

i swear that some people live in a fairy tale land laugh


Easy to not deal with life that way :smile:

no photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:42 PM

laugh laugh

evidently but thats the same reason why my friends come to me for advice laugh


You strike me as the kind of person who would be really good at that, too. And there's nothing wrong with speaking your mind --that's part of who you are.

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:42 PM
Can you be blunt without hurting other folks feelings?
It is poss.; I do it all the time.
Being blunt or truthful is not a license to forget your manners.
Maybe that is why folks get upset with you.
Just something to think about.
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:42 PM
Kinda like u....


but when you are blunt do you do it so it sounds like youre ignorant or rude?

TheShadow's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:44 PM

Can you be blunt without hurting other folks feelings?
It is poss.; I do it all the time.
Being blunt or truthful is not a license to forget your manners.
Maybe that is why folks get upset with you.
Just something to think about.
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


Yeah what he saiddrinker

mrsoonerrich78's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:46 PM
people take thing to seriously and they wine about it

southern_bee's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:47 PM


laugh laugh

evidently but thats the same reason why my friends come to me for advice laugh


You strike me as the kind of person who would be really good at that, too. And there's nothing wrong with speaking your mind --that's part of who you are.



hey lex,shadow,sage and kevin andwoni?did i get everyone.

yeah well i cant help it stupid peopleannoy me . and i want to help people so i guess it goes hand it hand

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:51 PM
Just because they don't think like you or aren't as intelligent as you, doesn't mean they are stupid; does it?
You comment in a rather aggresive mode, least ways to me.
Think you can say the same thing in a nice manner?
Maybe part of the problem is you?
Again just a thought.

P.S. Just read your profile.
Why do you end it calling all who read it "a lazy S.O.B."
Is that your way of being blunt.
Just don't understand.

southern_bee's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:53 PM
its just when i tell people "hey this is going to happen and its a bad idea" and they do it and i keep warning them b4 they do something..

its like yes keep not listening to me when time and time again you told me i was right after he factlaugh

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:58 PM
It is called "Free choice."
Just because someone tells you something, do you ALWAYS listen?
Bet not.

People in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones.
ohwell ohwell flowerforyou

southern_bee's photo
Tue 01/29/08 09:59 PM
grumble its like like one of my friends shes getting married to a guy shes only know a month she notorious for meeting a guy and trying to marry him almost right off the bat

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/29/08 10:03 PM
That affects you HOW?
I understand caring about friends, but seems your trying to CONTROL her life.
Only thing you can really control is you.
Worry about what you can do something about.
The rest is not your prob.