ok so i went out on a first date with this guy last week wednesday. we had a great time and connected really well. the next day he told me that he had a great time and was looking forward to our next date. now he hasnt really said much more about a date. but i asked him over the weekend when i get to see him next and his response was that we can work something out for this week. since he has not said anything is it bad for me to ask him? or should i let him do the chasing and the asking?

yes let him chase u

make him chase you, you are adorable

Ask him out... make sure he picks a day if he doesn't he's not interested.

Let him bring it up next

Personally, I don't think girls should chase guys. If he wants you bad enough, he'll get you. Girls that chase aren't bad, don't get me wrong. But some guys don't like clingy/psycho girls, and if you chase him, he may think that way of you.

definately let him do the chasing....guys like it when women are challenging. And I think guys scare too easily so you don't want to seem to available either. I think telling him you had a nice time and that you look forward to talking to him again is fine but then wait for him to contact you.

Men like the chase, that's why they hunt and fish and etc... Let him chase you. If you want him you have to let it be.

I would bring it up to him.... Don't play the cat and mouse game. TOTALLY HIGH SCHOOL!! If something is on your mind, you should say it. You never know, he might like that. Always speak your mind, don't bottle things up and TOTALLY communicate. Communication is the key. Don't wait, or it could be to late....

ok well i was a moron and had to ask anyways...and we are going out thursday night when i get out of school :)

I'm a man.....I HATE the chase... It's not necessary to chase. If someone has feelings, he/she should say them. It shouldn't be the males who always have to do the speaking. Both should give their all in a relationship. There's no such thing as a 50/50 relationship.... It should be 100/100. That's my 2 cents.

See, you asked and he said something. Don't bottle it up and keep it to yourself. Put the foot forward and do the asking. If you assume he is going to ask, that is a mistake. Assumptions are the mother of all f**k ups!! SPEAK YOUR MIND!!

yea he even told me that he was looking at his schedule today to see when he was free so he could ask me out. :)

Good to hear, I hope things work out. Sounds like you're on the right track. I'm glad you asked. That was the right thing to do because it was on your mind.... Kudos for you!!

Sorry let me clarify what I meant. What i mean is that you can't always chase cause then it's a one way chase. You are very it should be 50/50 not 100/0 either way.

i am the only person here that worries so much when it comes to dating? i mean i totally mind **** myself! its horrible

Oh absolutely not. I lose all sense of reason, I think.

Men are dumb!!!

Yeah what she said, but not to much

And woman are dumber for falling for the dumb ones